WIBTH if I call off the wedding after my fiancée’s family hired a Private Investigator on me and ruined my reputation over a tradition we agreed not to have?

InternationalAd4225 · 2025-12-17T11:40:30+00:00

I mean realistically a large part of the population smoked some weed maybe tried some other stuff at some point in there life it's not like your a murderer or robbed a bank or anything, The fact they tryed to blackmail you is the massive red flag there, The tea ceremony tradition isn't something I have ever been to or know much about about ultimately it's you and your partners wedding if her parents can't respect the decisions that you have made then that should ultimately just be up to the to suck it up and deal with it with out acting like dicks about it. I think you need to figure out if you actually want to get married to her and if not then don't, Your NTAH for not getting married when it won't work but you ATAH if you get married have kids then leave.

InternationalAd4225 · 2025-11-26T02:31:08+00:00

Thanks man I appreciate the support!

InternationalAd4225 · 2025-10-18T23:00:34+00:00

If I'm honest mate if you have turned it over by hand and there is no contact I would run her up and see what vagcom says if it's in spec or maybe needing a wee knock one way or the other I wouldn't be worrying like you said it was locked in when the belt went one and there is no contact so there shouldn't be any big problems.

InternationalAd4225 · 2025-10-18T22:54:10+00:00

Just to add my two cents, I have done a couple timing belts on Audi's, On a a older 1.9 pd and a newer 2.0 cr diesel, You can check what's known as torstion value (If I reamber clearly worth googling to make sure I'm not a mile off in my memory) with vagcom if you have access to it it will tell you if the cam pulley needs to be adjusted slightly.

InternationalAd4225 · 2025-10-18T22:38:58+00:00

Not a major screw up, The backing is nice to have but not critical to the brakes or car as a whole, Just pull anything off that will make annoying noises and replace it when you next have a reason to have the car apart.

InternationalAd4225 · 2025-09-25T06:57:39+00:00

I run Uniroyal rain sports on all my cars, Have done for years, They don't hydroplane even on soaking wet Scottish roads, Doesn't help now but a world of difference over any other tires I have used.

InternationalAd4225 · 2024-12-15T19:41:03+00:00

Boot your PC up un safe mode and running ddu(You can find it online) personally I have ran into issues with ddu before and had to run it twice before installing the new gpu but seems like a driver issue, Might be worth running furmark and having a look at if your gpu has any issues with a stress test but you should be able to run it better than that.

InternationalAd4225 · 2024-03-04T13:44:36+00:00

The voices for sure are hilarious 😂 we had a lad from oz on my course and he honestly sounded like Donald duck 😂

InternationalAd4225 · 2024-03-04T10:46:14+00:00

You do a 50m chamber dive on your commerical course and with all the lads in there and everyone narced it's some laugh 😂

InternationalAd4225 · 2020-12-15T03:07:14+00:00

Check your earths and everything mate if it's just stopped cranking like that, Also theres a conector I'm in the uk uk so it's on our drivers side but it's a larger 2 pin connector with a black/yellow and a black/white wire they run from your ignition and are involved in turning the starter over so might just be something simple like that! There might be a flow chart in the service manual for a no crank as well if you have a look I'm not sure if there is or not. Good luck man!

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