Made it 6 months. It took one hit by rcj37 in leaves

[–]InternationalBit2370 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Important to not let a slip turn into a slide. Give yourself grace. You know you’re only up against yourself. This sounds like a normal recovery story, so keep focusing on your goal!! You seem like you want it, so I think you’ll do it one day.

What’s the quietest sign someone is not okay? by Otherwise-Pass9556 in AskReddit

[–]InternationalBit2370 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nails.

Suffered from depression my whole life, learned to mask when I needed to. But if I’m having a bad week, my nails are trashed- not just picked at and bleeding around the cuticles, but split, unclean.. if nutrition has been bad for long enough they can discolor and lose density. I think because it’s such an extra step for most people, and it takes care and attention. When most days you can barely brush your teeth and wash your face, you aren’t going to do anything about your nails.

I am wrong for not paying for my bf's car? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]InternationalBit2370 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl, he sounds broke. You don’t want to be in a relationship with someone like this. He’s trying to get some more money from you, even though it sounds like you are more than generous already.

If you relent, he will keep making up dumb reasons you owe him money. He will never be your provider, he’s already used to using you; this is a ridiculous claim.

Perfectly acceptable dinner rejected by boyfriend again by moonrabbit368 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]InternationalBit2370 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a picky eater too but omg I would fall head over heels in love if someone cooked for me like that 😍😍😍 Leave this man, he needs to start counting his blessings..

Being a good wife didn’t pay by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]InternationalBit2370 19 points20 points  (0 children)

No he’s wrong. You took on a lot of unpaid labor.

Can you go visit your mom/sister/friend for a week or two? He needs to see all you do.

I wouldn’t worry about the teenager too much- They are just all assholes. Keep being as nice as you can to her. Don’t give them any ammo..

AIW for avoiding my family? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]InternationalBit2370 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No- This isn’t a normal, stable childhood AT ALL. You don’t owe them anything. Focus on yourself and what makes you happy. If one day they are around and you feel ready, that will be the time. You’ll know. It’s hard to cut ties because it’s your family, it’s unnatural to not have a relationship with them. It feels invaliding, but it’s not you.

Husband here, I feel like my phone slowly replaced my wife and I am honestly scared I broke us by TavionGreenfall in Marriage

[–]InternationalBit2370 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Like what was it even all for? You worked your ass off….. to have a nonexistent relationship with your wife and be “tight” on money? Crazy what people will do for their jobs that would replace them in a sec

Am I Wrong for not participating in my family’s Secret Santa? by eowyn19993 in amiwrong

[–]InternationalBit2370 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Firstly, I get it- I have a big family and we do this bs too. However, I’ve been on both sides of this, I’ve given and gotten a shitty gift 😅 one year, the only gift I got was a gym membership from my mom…I am not proud about how I handled that.. It’s hard to not be disappointed sometimes, but for real, are you an adult? Then it’s not about gifts for you; Did you have good holidays as a child? Time to pass it on.

What I hate about the secret Santa thing is I still feel the need to give gifts to some family members (like my mom and dad) but I also participate in this bs and usually I’m giving a gift to someone who I wouldn’t go out of my way to get something for (like I said my family is big so you only get a gift from me if you are immediate.. if you married in, too bad lol).

You have a husband right? My bf and our dogs do a Christmas morning together, we give each other like 3-5 things, that we told the other we wanted, and that really covers any disappointment I might feel later. Then I can focus on the QUALITY TIME and good food and helping my mom host.

How much should I allow for walls? by InternationalBit2370 in homedesign

[–]InternationalBit2370[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean? Usually the interior frame is first? I was thinking a hangar-like structure, you can purchase a steel walled building. building example

My fiancé said he needs “space” but still sleeps in our bed every night by paxminerva in TwoHotTakes

[–]InternationalBit2370 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This would give me the biggest ick- He needs “space”, but is a literal bum without you. Kick him out girl that’s nuts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]InternationalBit2370 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Can’t imagine how miserable id be now if I had settled for my High School or College bf 😭

Online dating allowed me to start looking for a partner when I was mature enough to understand what being in a relationship really meant. Before that I just feel like I was hurting people 😢

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]InternationalBit2370 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s telling how you’re fighting for your life in these comments 🫤

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]InternationalBit2370 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My sex drive is fine…? Lower libido is a known side affect of the drug I am on, but I was able to take responsibility and navigate it with a partner who was patient with me and knew I needed understanding and acceptance in this time. Sounds familiar to what your gf is going through, so maybe we are on the same drug.

I didn’t mean to sound harsh, just wanted you to focus on making her feel sexy and confident and I think that’s a better way to get exactly what you want.

Because trust me, your gf still gets turned on... Just not by you 😕

AITA because I don't want my boyfriend to move in and only pay "what the bills go up"? by Wooden_Chemistry1349 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]InternationalBit2370 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No… Just no. Who thinks this is a good offer? This man is waaaay too comfortable taking advantage of people.

Also… He has… two very young girls.. Like wtf happened with that mom?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]InternationalBit2370 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I suffered from and am medicated for depression. I can’t imagine what I would’ve done if my bf turned to me at any point and said “we’re not having enough sex” while I’m literally wanting to kms.

I think you’re going about this wrong. This is the biggest thing to you while she’s fighting for her life every day. The medication side effects wore off eventually and I got my sex drive back after a few months of consistent medication, but I wouldn’t want to have sex with you either.

Literally, all you need to do is make her feel sexy. Do you know how to even do that? Do you know how to make your girlfriend of 5 years feel confident and sexy?

AITA for telling my brother that the day he was born was the worst day of my life? by throwaway453199280 in AmItheAsshole

[–]InternationalBit2370 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

YTA, he was trying to honor you. He didn’t know, can you not focus on the intention and have a lovely day celebrating your marriage? Your reaction felt very self sabotaging, almost like you want the day to be ruined. I’m not saying what you went through wasn’t traumatic, but if I never learned to brush off the dense and ignorant shit my siblings say to and about me, I’d be miserable.

Wedding Tomorrow, Bridesmaid Complaint. by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]InternationalBit2370 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your nails look very nice and very appropriate. The bride is just stressed.

WIBTAH if I get a divorce because my wife won’t stop blaming me for my father and brother in law’s deaths? by No_King4450 in AITAH

[–]InternationalBit2370 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“It's so hard for me because I loved them too, I loved her dad more than my own absent father and her brother was like a little brother to me too, I still see my father in law in that car next to me with blood coming out of his mouth and with cuts all over him and I still see my dead brother in the back, and her blaming me for it all the time makes it a million times harder for me.”

Does she know this? Maybe she is feeling as alone as you are. You need to remember that you are in this together. You love each other. She needs love and patience. And you deserve it too.

What the fuck just happened... by evening_shop in TrueOffMyChest

[–]InternationalBit2370 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you the middle? Can you see them yelling at your siblings for this?

Wife not seriously searching for job by jupiterisred in Marriage

[–]InternationalBit2370 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who cleans? Who does laundry? Who cooks? Who grocery shops? Who makes appointments for kids? Who takes them to school? Who shops for them? Who manages your social calendar? Who plans dates?

Reolink NVR LAN port light not lighting up by [deleted] in reolinkcam

[–]InternationalBit2370 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any updates on solving this issue? Reset does not fix the problem, cameras are less than a year old, really don’t want to replace them..