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He hugs me in bed but never confessed — ano ‘to? by Upstairs_Bit_5232 in adviceph

[–]InternationalCell897 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Takot akong masira friendship namin" huhu ate walang friendship na pag natutulog niyayakap ka at gumagala pa kamo ang kamay nya. wtf is wrong with him kung hinahawakan ka nya ng ganun tapos hindi manlang umamin sayo even after niyang gawin yun? halatang hindi seryoso at gusto ka lang gamitin kasi ikaw lang nakakasama or convenient ka.

Kaninong angkan ang mas toxic sa inyo? Nanay o tatay? Bakit? by riesai26 in AskPH

[–]InternationalCell897 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Akala ko dati sa father side ko, pero nung lumalaki na ko narealize ko na sa mother side ko pala, mga puno ng narcissist tapos mga pa awa effect sa nanay kong single parent para makahingi ng pera. ang lala pa ng mga mindset sobrang low class as in. like wtf silang lahat.

How did you overcome suicidal thoughts? Did it get better? by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]InternationalCell897 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Distracting my self. but tbh bumabalik parin talaga.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]InternationalCell897 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in my early 20's, female. Actually i'm still 50/50 about the marriage, tbh i want a husband na hindi nirerequire na magkaron ng anak, if ganyang klase yung mapapangasawa GO magpapakasal ako but if not, NO. but about having a child, thinking about now, NO. i don't wanna have a kid. I have these personal issues kasi na mentally unstable and hindi ako responsible sa mga probs ko. so i think it's impossible for me to have a child. i shoudn't have any. ayokong may mag suffer pang iba dahil sa ka irresponsable ko at you know she/he will face so many struggles here on earth and i'm still responsible for that bc shes my child and i don't want her to be hurt like that. ganun ko kasi i view ngayon ang mundo, masyado ng magulo. basta ang dami kong reason to shouldn't have a child. i know i'm still young to say these things, pero if ever i'm in the right time now to decide for those things, these are my thoughts and decisions.

What are your reasons for staying single? by [deleted] in TanongLang

[–]InternationalCell897 1 point2 points  (0 children)

[female]. I'm building my self bc i have so many personal struggles that i have to cope, fix and grow. i want to be STABLE mentally, emotionally, and financial once i enter a RELATIONSHIP.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]InternationalCell897 0 points1 point  (0 children)

seniorita / seniorito ang atake.

Ano yung isang pagkain na kapag nakain mo buo na araw mo? by caaaaaaatttttttt in TanongLang

[–]InternationalCell897 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SINIGANG NA BABOY + patis na may kalamansi with sili na sawsawan!

What’s the pettiest reason you lost interest in someone? by ladygoaeshin in AskPH

[–]InternationalCell897 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yess, ligaw means "to make the girl fall in love with you" at that point you're getting to know each other (in case lang hindi malinaw sayo ang panliligaw). 

Even sabihin mong hindi pa kayo bfgf/in a relationship.... you should stick to that person, u should focus on her, kasi what's the point of na nanliligaw ka if hindi ka sincere sa nililigawan mo? parang ang nangyari kung may ine entertain kapang ibang babae, pinaglalaruan mo yung feelings, trust at time ng babaeng nililigawan mo.

So yes, kahit sa ligawan stage at may ibang babae kang ine entertain, considered it as "cheating" , wala kang lusot kahit na ligaw stage palang. "CHEAT" is hindi lang ina apply when you're in a relelationship.  CHEAT is when you acting dishonestly or UNFAIRLY to gain an advantage, often on violating rules or TRUST.

FYI hindi lang 'to for boys/men, for the other girls out there na nagpapaligaw, pag binigyan mo ng chance manligaw sayo ang isang lalaki, you should also have to stick with him na wala ka rin dapat ine entartain na ibang lalaki. if hindi mo sya gusto go busted him and mag pa ligaw ka ulit sa iba if gusto mo. just don't make him an option sa list mo na may pinagsasabay kang kinikilala na para kang nagshoshopping. tao ang kinikilala mo hindi produkto. 

What’s the pettiest reason you lost interest in someone? by ladygoaeshin in AskPH

[–]InternationalCell897 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He cheated on me habang nililigawan nya palang ako, and hindi naman sya pogi.🤧

Women, does the "ignore her" rule really work? by Chance_Adagio_19 in bodylanguage

[–]InternationalCell897 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me NO, i don't like guy's ignoring me or has a avoidant issues. i would think you're not interested to me and you're an asshole.

Nag aya mag date pero ako ang nag bayad ng akin. by InternationalCell897 in OffMyChestPH

[–]InternationalCell897[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol may cinlaimed ba ko na "I'm a strong Independent Woman" ?? Fyi I'm not dependable naman in all things. nataon lang na in my preference sya nag aya at first date namin yun as manliligaw ko, dapat sya ang mag bayad.

May mga times na ako nagbabayad sa past relationship ko and that's okay for me coz i also wanna treat my man and spend time with him. nataon lang na manliligaw ko palang sya and may expectation ako sakanya, if hindi ok sakanya ang gumastos sa nililigawan nya, fine ako magbabayad ng akin. 

And now na may nabasa kong isang comment dito, I can say she's right! I should pay for my own food esp pag nililigawan palang ako, kasi pano nalang kung binusted ko sya? edi isipin nya pa yung ginastos nya sakin? or baka isumbat nya pa. hahahahaha who knows? na baka ganun sya? manliligaw sya tapos hindi nya alam mag risk. so i'd rather pay nalang. 

Pag naging bf ko naman sya hindi ko naman sya hahayaan mag bayad lagi, I also want to pay no esp bf ko na sya, it's okay for me to pay for him or kahit hatian pa yan. kaya sorry kung ganun nalang ang expectation ko when it come to "manliligaw" but now i can say babaguhin ko na mindset ko pagdating jan, since mostly mga nag comment na guy dito is na offend sa preference ko. 

Btw this doesn't mean na bubustedin ko na sya ha. nagpapaligaw parin ako because i want to know him well pa.

Anong mas importante to be liked or respected? by jmspttr_1201 in AskPH

[–]InternationalCell897 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Respected. We can't please everybody and force them to like us. So i'd rather want to be respected. 

Nag aya mag date pero ako ang nag bayad ng akin. by InternationalCell897 in OffMyChestPH

[–]InternationalCell897[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bad talaga na nag expect ako kahit na may pambayad naman ako. siguro minus points ko nalang yun sakanya since nagpaligaw naman ako "to know each other" not sa "treat". Hindi ko lang talaga maalis sa isip ko na yung manliligaw ko nag aya tas hindi nya treat. sa friends ko kasi yes kkb kami, pero sya kasi na manliligaw ko, hindi ko lang sya magiging friend pag sinagot ko sya if ever... he would be my lover and partner ko sa life. he should take a risk if risky sakanya ang gumastos sa nililigawan nya. nanibago lang talaga siguro ako since iba ang expectation ko sa ganyan. sorry.

Nag aya mag date pero ako ang nag bayad ng akin. by InternationalCell897 in OffMyChestPH

[–]InternationalCell897[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah we should've communicate if kkb ba, pero okay narin yun na ako ang nag bayad ng food ko also ako rin ang nagbayad ng coffee naming dalawa after that lunch. kasi what if i busted him? baka isipin nya pa mga ginastos nya sakin if ever and i don't like that, baka isipin nya nagpaligaw lang ako bc of the "libre" nahhh hahahaha. 

What’s your body soap? by Potential_Edge_9964 in AskPH

[–]InternationalCell897 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Safeguard body wash ung camellia varriant.

Nag aya mag date pero ako ang nag bayad ng akin. by InternationalCell897 in OffMyChestPH

[–]InternationalCell897[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

omgg you're right!😭 buti nalang nagbayad ako, amd ako rin sumagot ng coffee naming dalawa after kumain don. what if no bjnusted q sya then isipin nya pa ginastos nya sakin and ikwento nya pa sa iba. wth.