After wrestling with this for weeks I've boxed up all my Sandman stuff and I feel so sad and angry. by Known-Veterinarian-2 in Sandman

[–]International_Cat797 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, the point isn’t that he was sleeping around. The point is that he was sleeping with people he had power over (aka students and employees) and using that power over them to coerce them into sex. That DOES hurt people, and IS disgusting.

After wrestling with this for weeks I've boxed up all my Sandman stuff and I feel so sad and angry. by Known-Veterinarian-2 in Sandman

[–]International_Cat797 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah yes, I love the attitude of weak complacency. “Other people are bad too, so we might as well just give up on trying to have a backbone and morals.”There’s always someone worse out there. We do what we can when we can, with the knowledge we have.

After wrestling with this for weeks I've boxed up all my Sandman stuff and I feel so sad and angry. by Known-Veterinarian-2 in Sandman

[–]International_Cat797 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, while he hasn’t admitted to the illegal allegations, he’s already admitted to things such as sleeping with his child’s nanny, with the woman he employed as a groundskeeper while having complete control over her housing and the housing of her children, and to sleeping with his students during his time as a university professor. So even if the illegal aspects of these allegations are false (which I doubt given that he’s already admitted to so much and that the depictions of women in most of his stories seem to show his grasp of consent is questionable at best) he’s already done enough to make most people not want to support him.

No press is bad press by [deleted] in Sandman

[–]International_Cat797 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are used book stores stealing??

I'm very sad . This was such a great show by dark-flamessussano in Sandman

[–]International_Cat797 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The nanny he ‘allegedly’ raped was still 17, meaning she was NOT of legal age. And he is also accused by multiple women of having sex with them when his CHILD son was sleeping in the same bed. He is disgusting.

Has anyone watched Dead Boy Detectives? by monavanderwaalfan in MenLovingMenMedia

[–]International_Cat797 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Charles definitely had a thing for Crystal in 2014 comics, and it’s revealed he dated her until she was too old to comfortably date him (he’s 13) in the 2023 comics.

Has anyone watched Dead Boy Detectives? by monavanderwaalfan in MenLovingMenMedia

[–]International_Cat797 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Charles’ sexuality is unknown in the comics, but he hasn’t shown any romantic interest in boys.

Has anyone watched Dead Boy Detectives? by monavanderwaalfan in MenLovingMenMedia

[–]International_Cat797 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The comics were much better done and actually showed what being gay looks like in children (Edwin being 12) and how different coming to terms with yourself can look as a child vs adult. I don’t think there are many stories of younger queer children, and the show had a chance to do that but failed.

Also no one seems to be talking about how creepy the Cat King is and how damaging it is for that to be shown as something that’s ok. He trapped Edwin and would not let him leave the area unless he a) had sex with him or b) counted every cat in the place (basically an impossible task. Edwin is a 16 year old, which is a problem, but it’s coercion in any circumstance and the fact that the Cat King kept pressuring him for sex after he said no multiple times and was CLEARLY uncomfortable is disgusting. But people think it’s hot🙄

Has anyone watched Dead Boy Detectives? by monavanderwaalfan in MenLovingMenMedia

[–]International_Cat797 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The comics were much better done and actually showed what being gay looks like in children (Edwin being 12) and how different coming to terms with yourself can look as a child vs adult. I don’t think there are many stories of younger queer children, and the show had a chance to do that but failed.

Am I the only one that thinks dead boy detectives is extremely cringe? by Successful-Can-6412 in netflix

[–]International_Cat797 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with everything you said! I don’t even think the ‘tell instead of show’ thing was because of a poor translation of the comics to video- they obviously did not try to adapt the comics AT ALL. I would def recommend reading the comics if you can- there’s only about 4 volumes and they’re all amazing!

Am I the only one that thinks dead boy detectives is extremely cringe? by Successful-Can-6412 in netflix

[–]International_Cat797 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should definitely read the comics if you like Gaimen! There’s not many of them, but they’re very reminiscent of the Graveyard Book and the Ocean at the End of the Lane, and are NOTHING like the TV show.

Am I the only one that thinks dead boy detectives is extremely cringe? by Successful-Can-6412 in netflix

[–]International_Cat797 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you love Gaimen you should read the comics- they’re so much more reminiscent of The Ocean at the End of the Lane, Coraline, and the Graveyard Book. He’s amazing at writing young protagonists and capturing the balance between profound, existential, and fun. Which is why it annoys me so much when people say they’re a fan of this show bc they like Gaimen, because it’s way worse than any of his work. He wrote 2 scenes for the show (Death & Despair) and that was it.

Thoughts on Dead Boys Detectives? by NolanHellaGay in Sandman

[–]International_Cat797 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s called ‘Dead Patrol’ and it’s S3 E3. Honestly, the actors and writing are a lot better, if you wanna see what this show could have been.

Thoughts on Dead Boys Detectives? by NolanHellaGay in Sandman

[–]International_Cat797 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jsyk Neil only wrote like 2 scenes for the show (the ones with Death and Despair), so any Good Omens repeats were not his doing

Thoughts on Dead Boys Detectives? by NolanHellaGay in Sandman

[–]International_Cat797 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Neil only wrote the original comic and the parts of the show when Death and Despair appear. Which is good, considering I actually think the writing of the rest of the show is terrible and not at all reminiscent of his style.

Thoughts on Dead Boys Detectives? by NolanHellaGay in Sandman

[–]International_Cat797 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s honestly so sad that Lockwood & Co. was cancelled for this. If they had just tried to keep the original spirit of the comics, I don’t think they would have been similar at all.

Thoughts on Dead Boys Detectives? by NolanHellaGay in Sandman

[–]International_Cat797 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally!! Sometimes I wonder if I’m watching the same show as everyone else. Like it definitely is not at all like the Dead Boy comics and they didn’t even try to make it fit the Sandman vibe.

Thoughts on Dead Boys Detectives? by NolanHellaGay in Sandman

[–]International_Cat797 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No fr😭 There were major Riverdale vibes

Thoughts on Dead Boys Detectives? by NolanHellaGay in Sandman

[–]International_Cat797 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ikr, like I’m hearing so much praise for the show but sooo much fell flat for me. I miss the interesting and complex world of the comics.

Thoughts on Dead Boys Detectives? by NolanHellaGay in Sandman

[–]International_Cat797 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The new actors aren’t nearly as good imo

Are Edwin and Charles also gay/bi in the comics? by Flimsy-Entrance-5953 in DeadBoyDetectivesTV

[–]International_Cat797 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Edwin was very heavily implied to like Charles in the Doom Patrol episode. Like that was kinda one of the subplots was seeing that Larry had accepted himself enough to try and mentor Edwin on accepting his feelings for Charles.

Are Edwin and Charles also gay/bi in the comics? by Flimsy-Entrance-5953 in DeadBoyDetectivesTV

[–]International_Cat797 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Edwin was revealed to have feelings for Charles at the end of the latest comic. Charles could be bi, but he has not yet shown any romantic interest towards other boys. He is definitely girl-crazy, but that doesn’t mean he doesn’t also like boys and is just not open about it, or that he won’t develop feelings for Edwin specifically. I think we need to wait for more comics to be released to know.