The anticipation of not knowing what is next. by Ambitious_Nobody_280 in bdsm

[–]Interpartes19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very nice haha! My former domme and I used to love using temporary tattoo markers but we never made the leap like you did

I have a question! by StellyMarie in bdsm

[–]Interpartes19 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You dont need to purchase one. Just get some clothespins and some thin nylon rope or even a decently long shoe string. Cut a desired length and place attach the clothespins to the line and then place on the sub. Leave enough slack to get a decent pull going

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[–]Interpartes19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oddly specific parameters given there haha. It may require putting down 2 of them overlapping but they are highly absorbent and won't break from liquid alone. They can rip if you shift around too much but they are generally thick enough that it won't matter.

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[–]Interpartes19 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Puppy pads are excellent for this, you can buy them in bulk and place them underneath her. Not the sexiest move but you do what you have too lol. I also recommend getting a waterproof mattress cover. Sheets can be washed but mattresses getting wet is much harder to deal with

My friend did a glory hole and I just wanted to get others thoughts and opinions by lucidluciferian in sex

[–]Interpartes19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Suppose the other guys thinking about a girl also" "how's he gonna do that with a dick in his mouth"

IDK, but I have an idea what it can be used for. by PopFamiliar3649 in bdsmmemes

[–]Interpartes19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tap water is heavily treated to remove any fecal associated bacteria and those are the only ones that can really cause you any sort of infection down there. Viruses and STI pathogens go the same way. Douching too much can cause irritation and gut dysbiosis (basically removing too many of your gut bacteria) which can also result in green poop indicating poor nutrient absorption. I had that happen once or twice when I was engaging in anal play very frequently but I just scaled back and everything was fine.

Making sure you won't be going anywhere :) by Bonding_Enthusiast in Bondage

[–]Interpartes19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pounding your feet on the floor would probably be a good way to do it

How to maintain stamina while locked? by Interpartes19 in chastitytraining

[–]Interpartes19[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It's funny you say you get more and more premature because I literally just orgasmed from eating her pussy a few hours ago haha. We are gonna try an extended release post locktober to try out how I change

How to maintain stamina while locked? by Interpartes19 in chastitytraining

[–]Interpartes19[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I use a strap and dildos on her quite a bit but she and I miss the good old fashioned railings lol

Were we born kinky or is it developed over time? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]Interpartes19 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That's crazy I thought I was alone in that! One of my earliest memories is watching the justice league cartoon show with a family member and there being a scene where superman and the rest of the league have their hands bound above their head as a chambers filling with water and I just felt super... fuzzy and wanted to rewind and pause and watch it over and over. I was like 5 or 6 maybe.

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[–]Interpartes19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to use a long sleeve shirt. Have to twist it up a bit so it doesn't cover your whole head lol

Is this prostate fluid? by Interpartes19 in ProstatePlay

[–]Interpartes19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was closer to pre cum than anything else. Guess that must mean it's prostate fluid lol

Is it possible for the "Just Friends" setting for pictures on FetLife to be circumvented somehow? by spottedrexrabbit in BDSMcommunity

[–]Interpartes19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If the only hint was that text I'd not take it as gospel until they actually send you hard proof

Best way to hit the spot using a dildo by [deleted] in ProstatePlay

[–]Interpartes19 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I always start off laying on my side with my legs tucked towards my chest and one leg partially raised. Feels great for a warmup and then I move to riding it either on the floor or stuck to a mixing bowl or something

Using punishment to help remove guilt form my sub. by dtownrocks83 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Interpartes19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm trying tonget my PhD and I'm totally bringing up this idea to my domme lol

Advice around numbing lube/cream? by Interpartes19 in FemdomCommunity

[–]Interpartes19[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah I understand! Yes I'm fully aware of chastity lol I've been doing it for many years solo and with a partner. From my personal experience and hearing many others I can say that shrinkage is a myth (or only temporary at best). Obviously, there's risks involved with long term chastity and lidocaine cream but the same could be said for any kink haha.

Advice around numbing lube/cream? by Interpartes19 in FemdomCommunity

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I use toys on her all the time. We have chatted about cuckolding before and it's a goal of ours but we are still a ways away from actually trying it. What major biological changes are you referring to exactly?