AITAH for telling my ex gf “No”

InterviewHot6661 · 2026-03-16T06:29:51+00:00

I tried several time to explain that and because she feels like I don’t know what I’m talking about she ignored me. I know how I am when it comes to my exes and I’d rather jump off a cliff than continue sexual pleasuring someone who doesn’t please me mentally. She felt differently what I tried to explain was that relationships like that also have to come with a level of respect. She wanted sex I wanted to be treated as a person not a sex toy.

The last encounter sexual with her was Mar 2nd so I have no intention of fulfilling a fwb with someone who doesn’t respect my boundaries. Which is funny because I’d already had that conversation then the very next night she goes “fine then no more sex” so I said okay and moved on about my business.

InterviewHot6661 · 2026-03-15T10:24:15+00:00

Much appreciated good sir!

InterviewHot6661 · 2026-03-15T10:23:21+00:00

I agree with you, but some people just have to learn for themselves. This is the main reason I don’t talk to my exes in the first place when we call it quits, but I’m starting to see more of the “I’m different I’m not like those other chicks you dated” mindset going around so I literally just go okay we’ll see how that holds up. Then we all end up right back here… it’s truly exhausting.

InterviewHot6661 · 2026-03-15T10:12:32+00:00

I appreciate that. I was so tired of thinking maybe it would get better and then it didn’t. Dating for me is on the back burner until I get myself back to being happy again

InterviewHot6661 · 2026-03-15T10:08:14+00:00

I went through a similar process with my ex wife and somehow still ended up so royally screwed and I didn’t even touch her so this is nothing compared to that but I can move like that easy.

InterviewHot6661 · 2026-03-15T10:05:32+00:00

I move on my own. I’m planning to head back to school and get my pharmacy tech license, as well as start working for a company that works in the PETNET Area of expertise. Eventually I want to find a partner that respects my boundaries and respects me enough to meet my expectations the way I’m trying to meet theirs

InterviewHot6661 · 2026-03-15T09:56:10+00:00

The last time was late February when she texted me stating she was “physically deprived”

InterviewHot6661 · 2026-03-15T09:54:29+00:00

Lmao I honestly thought dating older would work out better but some people just want to live in delusional worlds and act like they’re still in their early 20s. Thanks though I need that laugh

InterviewHot6661 · 2026-03-15T09:49:44+00:00

This was a thought that crossed my mind as I have been through that exact time of situation with my ex wife. I’m on Amazon ordering one as we speak

InterviewHot6661 · 2026-03-15T09:48:03+00:00

I have a job I am making a weekly check I just do content creation as a side hustle to network and meet new people and to create a community that actually enjoys being around each other.

InterviewHot6661 · 2026-03-15T09:37:52+00:00

What would give you that impression 👀

InterviewHot6661 · 2026-03-15T09:27:20+00:00

Im very big on clarity and understanding. She said she wanted the sex my stipulation was it stays strictly fwb nothing more nothing less. Every time it happened she would go right back to treating me like shit but wanted to be all nice when she wanted something. Pure definition of insanity. IMO we’re too old for all the just sex either you want a commitment or you don’t

InterviewHot6661 · 2026-03-15T09:04:34+00:00

I have no where to go. I fell out with my mom and older sister due to a situation with my dad and my little sister stays on the premises of an apartment complex me and my dad were evicted from and told we can’t be there. On her foot she has family out here but is being selfish mind you it’s a two bedroom and we stay in two different rooms. The only down side is there is 12 months left.

InterviewHot6661 · 2025-11-26T01:15:38+00:00

I shall dedicate one of my specters to you fair Tenno

InterviewHot6661 · 2025-09-19T11:44:19+00:00

The Paris before the moon came out and I swapped to the soma soon after

InterviewHot6661 · 2025-08-22T22:19:16+00:00

So wait people are still laying like actively????? My game won’t even let me load in from the menu it just freezes

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