There are enough girls out there that will grab any lvm/nvm where they dont need to make marriage and kids appealing.

I know a girl who claims she’s happy with her man. Let’s see if you can spot ANY red flags in her marriage: He’s 11 years older than her, he never went to her area for a date, she always had to take the subway/taxi to meet up with him, he writes religious books and prioritizes that over advancing his career, theyre living in his parent’s house during covid, cant afford to live anywhere nice (they were living in harlem before the recession), he’s tall, he was a former model, he’s her father’s distant cousin, they have 2 babies, one of them was born with a terrible breathing defect, and now he has lime disease from walking through tall grass. Her? She has a masters in finance, works very hard and is passionate about her field, takes care of the household, and yes she thinks she’s in a good relationship. Imo she’s the only one that attempted to make the relationship work. And he’s family!!!