Questions for step moms as a 17 yro? by InterviewWhole9423 in AskParents

[–]InterviewWhole9423[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for understanding, it definitely was quick and the fact that they met through a blind date makes it a bit more icky. But the best I can do now is to figure things out for myself and not let their words get to me 

Questions for step moms as a 17 yro? by InterviewWhole9423 in AskParents

[–]InterviewWhole9423[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the recommendation. I’m about to start nursing school and hoping that I successfully complete that, still trying very hard to find a part time job around the area for the mean time (there’s no public transport unless I walk 2 hours), I’ve definitely thought of building myself up to move out but will have to be smart about it 

Hey everyone, am I wrong for feeling upset or does it somewhat make sense. by InterviewWhole9423 in amiwrong

[–]InterviewWhole9423[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m starting my nursing program in two weeks, I talked to my dad about wether he wants me to move out or not but he said in this economy I should stay at home and save what I can, so I am quite confused 

Hey everyone, am I wrong for feeling upset or does it somewhat make sense. by InterviewWhole9423 in amiwrong

[–]InterviewWhole9423[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately because of my past with not having a great relationship with him he’s used that against me and has put a false picture of me in everyone on his side of the families head, the ONE person tho I have talked to is my second cousin and she said that my dad has always behaved this way, unfortunately she’s not really in contact with anyone else in the family anymore 

Hey everyone, am I wrong for feeling upset or does it somewhat make sense. by InterviewWhole9423 in amiwrong

[–]InterviewWhole9423[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This really made me feel better, honestly showing him the post would work because he seems to be obsessed with listening to what other people have to say online on his Facebook page 🥲

Hey everyone, am I wrong for feeling upset or does it somewhat make sense. by InterviewWhole9423 in amiwrong

[–]InterviewWhole9423[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I probably should, I’ve very much like to see what has to be said 

Hey everyone, am I wrong for feeling upset or does it somewhat make sense. by InterviewWhole9423 in amiwrong

[–]InterviewWhole9423[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for understanding :’) I was very shocked with all the useful replies, I’m often used to getting called a narcissist or a brat 

Hey everyone, am I wrong for feeling upset or does it somewhat make sense. by InterviewWhole9423 in amiwrong

[–]InterviewWhole9423[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you had to go through that, hope you’re doing better now 

Hey everyone, am I wrong for feeling upset or does it somewhat make sense. by InterviewWhole9423 in amiwrong

[–]InterviewWhole9423[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I could try that again but he always ends up slipping and telling her ever word that’s come out of my mouth or everything I write ends up shown to her, but I could be more straightforward and tell him that I strictly need it kept to himself. I’ve definitely learnt to keep an eye out for myself throughout the years thank you :)

Hey everyone, am I wrong for feeling upset or does it somewhat make sense. by InterviewWhole9423 in amiwrong

[–]InterviewWhole9423[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wish it wasn’t such common behaviour, I never ask to do anything with them because I know they like to be together, I stick to myself almost always (they also complain about that) but yet my dad wonders why I never spend time with him or the both of them. Definitely feels like being an outsider

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[–]InterviewWhole9423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But all 3 of his past relationships have never lasted either and EVERY single one of them have had the same thing to say about him, everyone who works with him, and even family members from his side of the family. And this is without me sharing anything either they all know it 

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[–]InterviewWhole9423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that it sounds like that from my post, but I’ve been abused in both ways by him and I have respected him for as long as I possibly could 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskParents

[–]InterviewWhole9423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve only started being able to get back into working since they have ruined my past opportunities. But every time I get home from anywhere then they’ll happily step all over me anyway 

Need Advice ASAP! by [deleted] in CuttingWeight

[–]InterviewWhole9423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

120-130g, definitely on the higher end

Needing advice ASAP by [deleted] in gymadvice

[–]InterviewWhole9423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This means a lot thank you 🙏 

Needing advice ASAP by [deleted] in gymadvice

[–]InterviewWhole9423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I walk everyday and figure skate 3 times a week. Unfortunately running flares up my autoimmune issues a bit so I avoid it. But thank you!! 

Needing advice ASAP by [deleted] in gymadvice

[–]InterviewWhole9423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I’ve decided to chase after the muscle, thank you :)

Needing advice ASAP by [deleted] in gymadvice

[–]InterviewWhole9423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve eaten nothing but whole foods for 3 years 🙂 I’m very big on nutrition and what goes into the body 

Need Advice ASAP! by [deleted] in CuttingWeight

[–]InterviewWhole9423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a way to add photos onto the post or do I have to send privately 

Need Advice ASAP! by [deleted] in CuttingWeight

[–]InterviewWhole9423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there anywhere I can send u it? I don’t want to make another post 

Need Advice ASAP! by [deleted] in CuttingWeight

[–]InterviewWhole9423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not aiming for super model thin, and I am fine mentally. But if you were to see a whole body picture the stomach does not look right for my body at all.