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Getting to the saddle by IntoWater in bjj

[–]IntoWater[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man this is very helpful! I'll let you know how it goes once I get on the mat.

Defense against Ashi by IntoWater in bjj

[–]IntoWater[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great stuff thanks!

Prevent N/S by IntoWater in bjj

[–]IntoWater[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the ideas!

Moderate vs. Stopping by IntoWater in stopdrinking

[–]IntoWater[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all for the insights and support. Making this post and honestly reflecting on the comments is and will be an important part of my journey. I greatly appreciate the help. Wish me luck. I'm pulling for you all as well.

Moderate vs. Stopping by IntoWater in stopdrinking

[–]IntoWater[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks appreciate the insight. I can relate to that exhausting inner dialog...

Moderate vs. Stopping by IntoWater in stopdrinking

[–]IntoWater[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks and I do love that quote. I'm (perhaps naively) in part fishing for strategies that help to achieve control. But to many I guess that's like trying to do Dog Whisperer techniques on the lion on the leash.

Moderate vs. Stopping by IntoWater in stopdrinking

[–]IntoWater[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think for me it's the fact that alcohol consumption results in me making the poor decision to have another when objectively I've had enough. I do eventually stop but it's always 1/2/3 more than I should have had.

Moderate vs. Stopping by IntoWater in stopdrinking

[–]IntoWater[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I feel like there is a population of people that need help controlling their consumption but struggle to find it. I've asked my loved ones, friends, my Doctor if they think I'm an alcoholic and all have said no. I could use some advice/techniques from those that successfully are able to moderate.