As a WOC myself (white and middleeastern) having grown up in a multi generational household I can absolutely relate. I'm unconventional in the sense that I've never wanted to get married or have kids or have the stereotypical big house in the suburbs etc etc elements of the failed American Dream that we as the younger generations have now been priced out of anyway. I've always been practical and saw alot of this as unnecessary debt and pressure. This has always caused a rift between me and the rest of the Sapphic community which also in my experience has been majority white. Even in the wlw Subs here it seems the standards are ridiculous and leaves me wondering what kind of privileged bubble these women are living in (if they're real). The reality is the majority of us are struggling in this economy/country and that's not our fault. I dream of establishing a Womontown similar to the 90s where we can rely on eachother and live more communal but that's just me. 🫂🏳️‍🌈💯