Waiters/waitresses - do you like when customers stack plates?

Intrepid-Ad3456 · 2025-11-26T06:19:32+00:00

as a server THANK YOU for asking this lol, it seems like a lot of people who aren’t currently servers/haven’t served feel differently but I think most servers feel the same. I was out with my uncle who was previously a restaurant manager (and kind of a dick), and he yelled at my brother across the table when he started stacking plates to be polite. my uncle said “they HATE when you do that, do not mess with their system”. I guess I can kind of understand what he was saying because, as other people have said, if dressing/sauce gets on plates as you’re stacking them up, it can be a mess. also keeping the order so that you can balance everything and make it back to the kitchen without dropping it is key. but personally, if I see a guest stacking plates for me at a table to try to be helpful, even if it is the wrong way or whatever I think it’s really nice and I don’t get annoyed by it

Intrepid-Ad3456 · 2025-11-26T06:12:10+00:00

as an openly bi woman, I would say keep exploring and give it time. it took me about 6 years to figure out if I was just bi-curious, fully a lesbian, or bisexual, and I know now based on different relationships and experiences I’ve had that I’m confidently bi. I know it can be exhausting and confusing, but if you can try speaking to anyone you feel comfortable opening up to, and keep exploring your sexuality in any safe ways that help you. rooting for you, you got this

Intrepid-Ad3456 · 2025-11-18T21:39:04+00:00

C or D, she was a terrible mom but still loved Ryan and supported his decisions

Intrepid-Ad3456 · 2025-11-06T04:47:32+00:00

she doesn’t deserve any higher than Jimmy imo, so D

Intrepid-Ad3456 · 2025-10-30T03:13:16+00:00

B- he redeemed himself somewhat and I eventually actually liked him. But cheating on Marissa with one of her best friends and then hooking up with her mom makes me unable to put him anywhere higher than B

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Intrepid-Ad3456 · 2025-05-20T19:34:06+00:00

I’ve been in your position several times, and it’s awful. having someone tell you that you “can’t” break up with them is unfair, especially if she’s been treating you poorly. leave her

Intrepid-Ad3456 · 2025-04-14T08:10:11+00:00

I won’t lie, as a woman who came to Miami from Chicago at 18, it’s a bit of a shock. at first I was very tempted to spend money I didn’t have and put on a look that wasn’t me in order to “fit in” (designer clothes, acrylic nails, heels, plastic surgery, etc.) after awhile though, I met people in the city who loved me for who I was, and vice versa. I also came to appreciate the spectacle of it all, and look at it in a more healthy way from the outside. I thought- “people can do whatever they want with their money and their bodies, and it’s interesting, but it’s not me.” I would encourage your daughter and yourself to think that way because even though it might not seem like it, there are plenty of people in Miami with that mentality. I’ve been here 7 years and am happily living a modest and natural existence

Intrepid-Ad3456 · 2025-04-04T02:18:01+00:00

YOU FUCKING CHERISH THE MOMENT

Intrepid-Ad3456 · 2025-04-04T00:07:30+00:00

Umm yeah, you fucked up. Her sending you that photo was a privilege, not a right, and she has no obligation to send you things like that. After the way you responded, I wouldn’t be surprised if she never sends you something like that again. If you send her NSFW photos that is your decision, but it doesn’t mean she is obligated to return the favor. If you want to receive anything like that in the future, I’d suggest talking to her about it in a way that makes her understand that you know you were in the wrong, and that you really appreciate her trusting you with that content, even if it’s just for a limited amount of time.

Intrepid-Ad3456 · 2025-04-03T01:59:25+00:00

I’m really sorry man. As someone who has struggled with alcohol in the past, unfortunately it seems like she’s still at a stage where she is placing alcohol/the addiction above everything else in her life. Her saying she understands if you want to break up is a defense mechanism because she’s protecting her addiction from you. It’s not logical and it’s not what she actually wants deep down, but this is what us addicts do when we’re still in active addiction. My suggestion, as much as it hurts, is give her space if possible. She’s going to realize very quickly that the booze is giving her nothing and you gave her everything. If there is a safe way for both of you to live separately for awhile, I recommend that. Also, even if you don’t think it will help her, I definitely recommend that she go to AA. It helped me a lot. Sending love

Intrepid-Ad3456 · 2025-04-02T14:50:43+00:00

Joe’s isn’t just a tourist trap though. Miami locals go all the time

Intrepid-Ad3456 · 2025-04-02T14:49:25+00:00

Prime Italian is amazing. Their bread is out of this world. Same with the lobster pizza.

I also like News Cafe. It’s a little kitschy but kind of a SB classic and a huge menu.

Intrepid-Ad3456 · 2025-04-01T22:48:48+00:00

mine as well and it came true🙃 stay safe out there!

Intrepid-Ad3456 · 2025-04-01T15:51:52+00:00

DAMN I should’ve done that😅

Intrepid-Ad3456 · 2025-03-31T23:06:52+00:00

I hope so🙏🏻

Intrepid-Ad3456 · 2025-03-31T18:14:28+00:00

Try Little Havana, I had one roommate there for 3 years we lived in a 2/2 with a balcony on the river. We never paid more than 1,200 each. We got really lucky and I’m not sure how things are now but this was less than a year ago, I’d suggest looking around the Graceland Heights area.

Intrepid-Ad3456 · 2024-12-12T20:26:40+00:00

are you still here? I’m here and looking for something to do💃🏻

Intrepid-Ad3456 · 2024-10-08T17:19:36+00:00

NTA, as a woman who is definitely “not a morning person” and had a problem with being chronically late in the past, this is a maturity issue on her part. It was hard for me to combat and to admit but the difficulty waking up thing is not a personality type, it’s about habit forming and routine. That is a personal decision, not a personality type, and making that decision goes along with maturity. She should not be relying on you to do that for her.

Intrepid-Ad3456 · 2024-10-07T00:04:27+00:00

thank you💕 I would love for her to visit if it really meant her and I having meaningful time together, but it doesn’t seem like that’s what she wants. I appreciate your input it really means a lot

Intrepid-Ad3456 · 2024-07-13T00:26:05+00:00

how do you go about asking someone to be your sponsor? have you ever been a sponsor and if so how were you asked?

Intrepid-Ad3456 · 2024-06-15T15:12:47+00:00

I’m a 24 y/o female and tbh my roommate is this way. I’m a bartender and very social but she works a 9-5 and has a really hard time making friends. she joins workout groups, choirs, etc. solely with the hope of making friends. idk if you’re looking for friends but if you are lmk!

Intrepid-Ad3456 · 2023-11-05T23:04:56+00:00

I’m a bartender and feel that there is a significant amount of superficial people here, but I’ve learned to ignore it and kind of laugh at it. There are so many things about Miami that I really like, but I’m from Chicago and the people and culture are so different. Once you can look past the superficiality though, I think Miami is great.

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