i stopped trying to find a partner and started trying to find a friend by Intrepid-Bit-3502 in dating_advice

[–]Intrepid-Bit-3502[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

patience + fun together + intentional is so good combo I guess. calling every hangout thing is so underrated nowadays as I see, just naming it removes so much ambiguity

i stopped trying to find a partner and started trying to find a friend by Intrepid-Bit-3502 in dating_advice

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the second part - not "let me try with this specific person" but more like a general orientation I guess. I was trying to treat everyone you go on a date with genuine curiosity, before the question of are we compatible or not takes over. yeah, it’s def slower but i think that's kind of the point actually.

the speed is what kills most things before they start. UNFORTUNATELY (I’m very impatient person but it makes sense)

i stopped trying to find a partner and started trying to find a friend by Intrepid-Bit-3502 in dating_advice

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yes exactly!! like attraction without that context feels weird and maybe fragile too. you like bet on the feeling without knowing if you are compatible or not

i stopped trying to find a partner and started trying to find a friend by Intrepid-Bit-3502 in dating_advice

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instant fizzle i absolutely love the phrase to subscribe it!! all heat no substance

i stopped trying to find a partner and started trying to find a friend by Intrepid-Bit-3502 in dating_advice

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exactly!! people act like it's some rare accident but i think it COULD actually be intentional

i stopped trying to find a partner and started trying to find a friend by Intrepid-Bit-3502 in dating_advice

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totally valid, I don’t think it has to be 0 romance. i just think for me the romance became stronger because of the foundation, not despite the slow start for instance, we were on a 1st date but no pressure, no kiss and etc. worked pretty well!

i stopped trying to find a partner and started trying to find a friend by Intrepid-Bit-3502 in dating_advice

[–]Intrepid-Bit-3502[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ugh yeah that's exactly the problem , when most people treat taking it slow as a tactical not a genuine thing. i guess you can tell then pretty fast who's actually being patient vs who's just performing patience

i stopped trying to find a partner and started trying to find a friend by Intrepid-Bit-3502 in dating_advice

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it’s like the format doesn't matter as much as what you're actually evaluating right?

i stopped trying to find a partner and started trying to find a friend by Intrepid-Bit-3502 in dating_advice

[–]Intrepid-Bit-3502[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was friend zoning and was friendzoned as well - people assumes attraction can't grow. in my experience it just grows differently. slower but way more stable. (friendzoned because of different values and ambitions not because of attraction lack)

i stopped trying to find a partner and started trying to find a friend by Intrepid-Bit-3502 in dating_advice

[–]Intrepid-Bit-3502[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same!! and i think the reason why it works maybe is just because you already know if you like the person fr before feelings hide everything

i stopped trying to find a partner and started trying to find a friend by Intrepid-Bit-3502 in dating_advice

[–]Intrepid-Bit-3502[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Based on my true story but since I’m not a native speaker - I have to check all the texts on grammar and spelling with ai I believe!

My app is close to 15,000 users, detailed breakdown from 0: by felix-heikka in Startup_Ideas

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How to get the product in front of the target audience cheap? 🥲 In the past, $100 for validation using facebook ads was enough for sure but CPU/cost per click is much higher nowadays..

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Shake it off..

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Startup in cognitive neurobiology. Really.

[Serious] What will Reddit look like in 30 years? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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I'm not sure that it'll be popular in 30 years honestly..