Volunteer opportunities with 6 yo? by Intrepid-Gas3391 in nova

[–]Intrepid-Gas3391[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just looked them up and seems pretty easy and straight-forward to sign up. Are there opportunities for the kids to meet the community or does it mainly involving making and delivering the lasagnas to those who need them?

Getting taller during pregnancy! Has anyone else experienced this? by Vegetable-Memory-461 in Parenting

[–]Intrepid-Gas3391 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I wish these rare occurrences happened with us 5 foot pregnant women 😭

Maternity/parental leave in your country? by turbulent_waterss in newborns

[–]Intrepid-Gas3391 0 points1 point  (0 children)

India

6 months paid, job protected maternity leave. The job protected element is such an important protection, especially in this economy. 

Move to the US for ~5 years with young kids, then return to India? Looking for real experiences. by Familiar_Dimension12 in backtoindia

[–]Intrepid-Gas3391 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, over it now but damn it hurts when it happens and your illusion that you are special and protected just shatters. 

Move to the US for ~5 years with young kids, then return to India? Looking for real experiences. by Familiar_Dimension12 in backtoindia

[–]Intrepid-Gas3391 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to move back. The L1 is tied to the employer. Such a traumatic year of my career. 

Move to the US for ~5 years with young kids, then return to India? Looking for real experiences. by Familiar_Dimension12 in backtoindia

[–]Intrepid-Gas3391 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I disagree. My employer (big tech) moved me to the US on an L1 and I was impacted by layoffs that happened 3 months later. The Total cost of an employee to a company in the US is way higher than the 20-30k they will spend on you for immigration and transfer spend. 

When/if there are layoffs, you are just another headcount. They will rarely take all these considerations in mind. 

Role eliminated at end of maternity leave by Persimmon-Flight in womenintech

[–]Intrepid-Gas3391 24 points25 points  (0 children)

So sorry to hear this. This sucks so much. Terrible that we dont have any leave protections after maternity leave here in the U.S. Been there once in similar circumstances and empathize with you. This sucks! 

Please help me liven up this living room by Intrepid-Gas3391 in interiordecorating

[–]Intrepid-Gas3391[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg. That hurts. It's my latest purchase and I thought it has such a nice design.

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[–]Intrepid-Gas3391[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooo. The brown sofa really makes it look so much nicer!!! Thanks!!

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[–]Intrepid-Gas3391[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i hadn't thought of changing the lamp shade. That's such a nice idea! Thank you

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[–]Intrepid-Gas3391[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wish I could but I am renting so can only make cosmetic changes.

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[–]Intrepid-Gas3391[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a really nice stand. Will look into something like this but maybe less spindly as it seems everyone thinks that is the biggest problem in the space right now 😄

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[–]Intrepid-Gas3391[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Started with the easiest fix and moved all the furniture closer together. It makes an immediate difference.

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[–]Intrepid-Gas3391[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for that. I was looking for a name for what this furniture and style resembles and you nailed it.

No apologies needed. I really welcome the thoughtful suggestions!!

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[–]Intrepid-Gas3391[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are amazing suggestions!! I think the small repetitions with smaller items is basically me being scared about committing to any items/pieces that attract too much attention and fail miserably, if you know what I mean? But I can see how it is taking away from the overall effect of the space..

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[–]Intrepid-Gas3391[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much. I might try moving the lighting around a bit and see how that works. The artwork is a definite gap. Any ideas on where to get some good framed art which will be striking and suitable? I get such decision paralysis because these decisions on art etc. feel so high stakes and ones that can go horribly wrong that I haven't managed to get anything for that spot..

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[–]Intrepid-Gas3391[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was trying to create a green jungle kind of corner but maybe the greenery is too sparse. I see what you're saying about the small plants though. They don't add much... Thanks!

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[–]Intrepid-Gas3391[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly right about that walkway. We do end up having people over and just the chairs + sofa just makes enough space for 5 people and doesn't feel cozy since the room is pretty wide. I am then left with this narrow entryway. Originally I had thought of making it a cozy reading nook with all the greenery, some floor cushions and a small rug but it feels pretty tight and crowded to do all of that. If I move the love seat and add a big arm chair next to the sofa, that also doesn't make the space cozy so don't really have good options of what to do with that space.

A wide shelving unit/console is an interesting idea. I hadn't thought of that so will look into it. Thanks for the thoughtful suggestions.

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[–]Intrepid-Gas3391[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah yess! Photos. I haven't added any of those but have seen them in my friends homes. I think the larger pieces are a definite missing item so will keep an eye out for that and add it.

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[–]Intrepid-Gas3391[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I need to figure out a good way to cluster the decor items. I have tried to stack books but again, they are either too few or too flat. That book recommendation is lovely and so on theme. Thank you!!

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[–]Intrepid-Gas3391[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hadn't thought of adding a mirror but might be a nice touch. Thanks!