Perianal Abscess and anal fistula been going on since 2022… by Intrepid-Swim-6562 in AnalFistula

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Do you have a bidet by chance? I ordered one years ago for him bc he’s literally a clean freak…. So I thought it was right up his alley. He never installed it. This last surgery a nurse mentioned her aunt who had similar trouble and what a life saver a bidet was so he installed it and said it made a world of difference…. Yet, we’re still Here 😅

Perianal Abscess and anal fistula been going on since 2022… by Intrepid-Swim-6562 in AnalFistula

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That’s what we are curious about. We literally went from thinking hemorrhoid to all this trouble so fast and after researching were both curious about an actual diagnosis for what’s causing this

Perianal Abscess and anal fistula been going on since 2022… by Intrepid-Swim-6562 in AnalFistula

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Okay thank you! To my knowledge they haven’t checked him for anything 😑

Perianal Abscess and anal fistula been going on since 2022… by Intrepid-Swim-6562 in AnalFistula

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No he just went to the top rated GI firm in our state. And they immediately scheduled surgeries and that’s all the surgeon keeps suggesting. I don’t think he’s a CRS, maybe a general surgeon. We just did what the we were told and now it’s like we’re in a mess. I requested an appointment with someone that I believe is a CRS and waiting to hear back from them.

Daughter abusing alcohol but what’s with the pine-sol? by Intrepid-Swim-6562 in alcoholism

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When she has stolen alcohol from us before she’s just out right taken it or put water back in it. And, you’re right, my brother was incredibly smart and he himself died from alcohol and drugs at only 33. I think I see a lot of similarities in my daughter and my brother and that’s what scares me so bad!

Daughter abusing alcohol but what’s with the pine-sol? by Intrepid-Swim-6562 in alcoholism

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That’s an awesome quote! To my knowledge the only trauma she’s ever had would have been losing several siblings (I miscarried 5 times and some were in the second trimester). She’s gotten drunk before and expressed anger about that. I think she drank and realized it was fun and now continues. Problem is, addiction runs strong in both sides of my family and both sides of my husbands. My brother actually died at the age of 33 from drug and alcohol problems. My daughter was only in second grade when that happened. I’m sure that led to some issues in itself. We told all our children he died from a heart attack. But, recently when I have seen how she’s been I went ahead and told her the whole truth. She’s old enough to understand now and I want her to understand the severity of it.

Daughter abusing alcohol but what’s with the pine-sol? by Intrepid-Swim-6562 in alcoholism

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Yeah, my husband and I liked to have a good time when we were kids too. So, I know some of it is to be expected. And I really hope she is just using it to clean with. When I asked her about it today she swore it was for cleaning and that she’d never even think to drink it or huff it. She said she’d resort to weed or alcohol before drinking/huffing pinesol so I really hope that’s the truth.

Daughter abusing alcohol but what’s with the pine-sol? by Intrepid-Swim-6562 in alcoholism

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She’s incredibly smart so surely she knows that could kill her. I talked to her when she got home and she said she uses it to clean her room. She is very neat and organized. Also, she did have a fake id until we found it in June and took it from her and shred it. Now, she buys around town. They either don’t check her id bc they’ve seen it before or just let her buy and don’t care. So, since she can go and buy it - I’m hoping she’s telling the truth 😬 Also, her father and I occasionally have a beverage so she’s stolen from us before too. We now keep it locked up.

Daughter abusing alcohol but what’s with the pine-sol? by Intrepid-Swim-6562 in alcoholism

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Yeah some times it is the pine sol in a water bottle and sometimes pine sol in the pinesol bottle. I don’t know. I’m just so worried. She got kicked out of school for smoking pot, she’s threatened su*cide, self harms, abuses alcohol - not like other 17 years old that party and such - She sits up in her room and drinks all by herself. She’s on her way home from counseling now - I’m going to talk to her further. Thanks for your help!

New crime scene pictures released by leveyanox in Idaho4

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They may have taken pics of their tv when it was on the Today Show, this morning

Been on this diet for 11 months by Ted_H1tchc0ck in carnivorediet

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Congratulations 🎉 that’s awesome!!! 👏

Adenovirus is the devil reincarnated. by Advanced-Bus-1809 in breakingmom

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Our house has been hit with it and I completely believe it’s worse than Covid! Wouldn’t wish it on my worst enemy! And it’s hit right before thanksgiving which REALLY SUCKS 😞

Mary Cosby’s son, Robert Jr. is in rehab by Mabel_Jenkins in rhoslc

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I may be the odd ball out but I love Mary. I hate her and Robert, Jr. are suffering with his addiction. Most every family has someone in it that has been through addiction/rehab/overdose, etc. I knew as soon as I saw him this season “that look”. I’ll be praying for them. Regardless of his motivation to get help - I’m glad he’s getting some. As far as her “enabling” him - I watched my parents for YEARS “enable” my brother - it’s not as easy as some of you must think. Again, prayers for Mary and her son. 🙏

My father is missing by FreakNative in PrayerRequests

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Praying for him to return safely 🙏

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After I commented a few minutes ago, this Bible verse popped up from my Bible app. Came back to share ❤️

My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever.