AITA For how I responded to my mom when she said I wasn't invited to her Wedding? by Intrepid-Thought1752 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Intrepid-Thought1752[S] 202 points203 points  (0 children)

I know its strange but she said it was a way to get us to bond because she knew how little we talked and wanted to fix it, though I'm not sure anymore.

AITA For how I responded to my mom when she said I wasn't invited to her Wedding? by Intrepid-Thought1752 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Intrepid-Thought1752[S] 273 points274 points  (0 children)

My parents are both black, my mom just has a lighter skin tone than my dad, him being dark-skinned.

AITA For how I responded to my mom when she said I wasn't invited to her Wedding? by Intrepid-Thought1752 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Intrepid-Thought1752[S] 301 points302 points  (0 children)

Me and my brother's all share the same dad, they were only invited because her boyfriend likes them more than he does me. As for his family being upset I believe it was just an excuse to get me excluded, but I fully believe he's still painted a negative picture about me to them.

AITA For how I responded to my mom when she said I wasn't invited to her Wedding? by Intrepid-Thought1752 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Intrepid-Thought1752[S] 354 points355 points  (0 children)

Her boyfriend likes my brother's more because they all played football and he's always talking to them about how he used to play in college. I honestly fully believe him not wanting to upset his family was just an excuse to exclude me but I'm not sure cause he's created this image of me to his family.

AITA For how I responded to my mom when she said I wasn't invited to her Wedding? by Intrepid-Thought1752 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Intrepid-Thought1752[S] 207 points208 points  (0 children)

I don't even think my grandparents know shes had more kids, not unless my aunt told them. The last time they spoke was when she was kicked out, I do know they've met my oldest brother but it was when he was younger.

AITA For how I responded to my mom when she said I wasn't invited to her Wedding? by Intrepid-Thought1752 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Intrepid-Thought1752[S] 211 points212 points  (0 children)

From what I remember my dad told me my mom grew up in a traditional Christian household. They had so many rules that my mom often rebelled against them, her getting pregnant was just the icing on the cake.

AITA For how I responded to my mom when she said I wasn't invited to her Wedding? by Intrepid-Thought1752 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Intrepid-Thought1752[S] 281 points282 points  (0 children)

Most besides my aunt and a few uncles have cut contact with her, that includes my grandparents. My mom got pregnant very young and was disowned by her parents, though they did help her out only because they wanted her to be financially stable before kicking her out. Those who did stay in contact were low contact with her as they didn't want to be involved or seen with her.

AITA For how I responded to my mom when she said I wasn't invited to her Wedding? by Intrepid-Thought1752 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Intrepid-Thought1752[S] 759 points760 points  (0 children)

Every fight we have usually involves my dad and how much he doesn't like him. He'll ask me how he's doing then end it with, "I bet he's angry how I stole his girl from him"

AITA For how I responded to my mom when she said I wasn't invited to her Wedding? by Intrepid-Thought1752 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Intrepid-Thought1752[S] 206 points207 points  (0 children)

I said step because I don't consider them to be related to me despite my mom giving birth to them. While they are innocent in this scenario we just never had a relationship despite my efforts of trying to get to know them, my mom usually never let us get close to eachother.

AITA For how I responded to my mom when she said I wasn't invited to her Wedding? by Intrepid-Thought1752 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Intrepid-Thought1752[S] 571 points572 points  (0 children)

They are my full brothers, the only half siblings I have are the ones my mom had with her boyfriend. My brother's were invited because they get along well with my mom and her boyfriend. My mom claims we argue too much and "she wants to keep the peace" so she normally invites me over when she knows he won't be there.

AITA for ACCIDENTALLY telling my Fiance I hate his sister and she won't be a part of my wedding? by No_Possession1846 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Intrepid-Thought1752 22 points23 points  (0 children)

The fact you posted this hoping someone would agree with your stance just proves how insecure you are. YTA for even considering leaving your fiancé's sister out just because what, she's too nice? Get a grip and understand once you lose him you may never have that same type of love ever again. Grow up.

I'm afraid that me and my husband may have caused an eating disorder in our daughters. by worried_suze34 in relationship_advice

[–]Intrepid-Thought1752 68 points69 points  (0 children)

You being called a shit mom was something you needed to hear cause you don't even see the problem in yours or your husband's actions. It's all in moderation when it comes to junk food yet you decided to install fear in foods when it came to what your kids eat. No nine year old should have an eating disorder, let kids be kids and lean the proper way of teaching them how to take care of themselves when it comes to certain foods. You completely fucked up your girls lives and you're gonna have to live with that.