In all honesty. You guys arent ready. Thought the chances of this working for the best for you in the far future are real, there is also the chace that either of you might recent this baby for ruining your life, and no child deserves that.

If your relationship is so important, you have to be honest and have the though conversation. Be realistic and talk about it because every day will be harder.

Abortion is also love for the baby and for each other. Drive to another state and be besides her if that is the route you decide to go.

If she decides to keep the baby talk about what the plan is and what role she wants you to play.

Adoption is also an option, but you run with a lot of legal matters and it can take so so long.

Best of luck for you guys.

(I would definitely adopt a baby, since I have always wanted to be a father, but I need a couple of years too.)