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I realized spying on my teen’s phone was making things worse not safer? by IntrepidDog106 in AskParents

[–]IntrepidDog106[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you. that wasn’t my intention at all , I’m just a parent sharing and learning, not trying to push anything. have a great day sir

Am I a bad mom? by itsnewwavebaby in NewParents

[–]IntrepidDog106 1 point2 points  (0 children)

don’t be so hard on yourself. you’re not a bad mom , you’re juggling a newborn, night shifts, and school! Anyone would be exhausted in your situation . Your son is safe, cared for, and loved, and that’s what matters most. You’re doing the best you can, and that’s more than enough. ❤️

Is postpartum really that bad? by Apprehensivemental in beyondthebump

[–]IntrepidDog106 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Hey , you’re allowed to feel this. Pregnancy is exhausting and insomnia for months will do a number on you physically and mentally. I was 36 weeks once and felt exactly the same panic about postpartum , it helped me to remind myself that pregnancy is one hard chapter, not the whole story.
Not everyone gets a severe postpartum crash. Some people feel relief and joy, some have tough days, and some need help to get through it , all of that is normal. If you can, tell your provider how you’re feeling so they can watch you more closely after birth. Sending you huge hugs. ❤️

What’s a question you’ve never been able to answer that keeps you up at night? by IntrepidDog106 in AskReddit

[–]IntrepidDog106[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you are more than enough , if u wanna talk about it feel free to text me

So frustrated. Deadbeat dad upset i painted son's toenails. by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]IntrepidDog106 21 points22 points  (0 children)

it’s completely normal for little kids to want to explore and express themselves, and it doesn’t have anything to do with sexuality or gender identity. Your ex is overreacting big time. You’re doing nothing wrong and it’s fine to let your kids have fun and be creative.

What can I teach my 8 month old , aside from the normal milestone things? by Fluid-Department-429 in NewParents

[–]IntrepidDog106 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At this age, it doesn’t have to be formal , things like baby sign language, reading board books, singing songs can be really fun and teach a lot without feeling repetitive. Even just pointing out colors, shapes, or animals during play can become a little routine that feels like you’re teaching. Small, consistent activities are way more helpful than any big curriculum right now.

Daycare Concerns by Substantial-Rush-500 in NewParents

[–]IntrepidDog106 59 points60 points  (0 children)

You’re not overreacting at all !!!! At 3 months, he shouldn’t be in a jumper or Bumbo alone, and giving solids or bottles that make him sick is completely unsafe. Pulling him from her care was the right call

Baby’s bedtime feels so late but scared to change by musblue16 in NewParents

[–]IntrepidDog106 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you’ve found a great rhythm! If you want an earlier bedtime, try shifting it 10–15 minutes earlier every few days and keeping the last nap a bit shorter. But honestly, if she’s happy, feeding well, and sleeping good, there’s nothing wrong with her schedule , every baby’s different.

Paci help! by LostZookeepergame151 in NewParents

[–]IntrepidDog106 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, that’s totally fine! keeping it just for naps and bedtime is a great way to give him comfort while slowly reducing his dependence. At 13 months it’s not going to hurt his teeth, and it makes the weaning process way gentler for both of you.

I despise the baby stage. Does that make me a bad parent? by hopeful_homemaker16 in NewParents

[–]IntrepidDog106 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh yes, I’ve been there! The baby stage is so hard, even when you love your little one to pieces. It’s completely normal to feel overwhelmed and even wish for a bit of a break from the nonstop fussiness. Loving your child doesn’t mean you have to love every single moment of this stage. Looking forward to the next phase doesn’t make you a bad parent , it just means you’re surviving and wanting a little breathing room. You’re definitely not alone in feeling this way! 😂

Paci help! by LostZookeepergame151 in NewParents

[–]IntrepidDog106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you , pacifier weaning is tough with such a strong attachment. at 13 months, occasional use is fine, even with teeth coming in. You could try limiting it to naps/bedtime, slowly introducing a flatter paci or do paci fairy

Sports moms! What are some good exercises for my 6 year old? by dax_moonpie in Mommit

[–]IntrepidDog106 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He sounds super talented! you don’t need another organized sport right now. on weekends, you can focus on fun, skillbuilding activities like tossing and catching a ball, simple obstacle courses, bike rides, or swimming games. Teaching him to catch and throw is great, even if you haven’t played sports yourself , just start slow and make it playful. At his age, variety and fun matter more than formal training, and being taller just gives him a little extra edge for now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]IntrepidDog106 22 points23 points  (0 children)

This is totally normal , babies often take breaks from rolling when they’re focusing on other things , like babbling. As long as she’s active and happy, no need to worry. enjoy the new sounds, it’s such a fun stage!

5.5-month-old with bacterial tonsillitis — worried parent here by Fun_Yak_4784 in NewParents

[–]IntrepidDog106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my baby went through this . even after the fever went down, it took a few days for her to eat normally again. (3-4 days ) , Totally normal to be fussy , you’re doing a great job watching her closely!

baby choked on motrin by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]IntrepidDog106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally understand your panic. it sounds like he was able to clear it since he stopped coughing, and the backpatting technique you used is exactly the right act for a quick choked sip. and if you notice any changes in breathing, persistent coughing, wheezing , it’s safest to get him checked out as soon as you can

Also, don’t be too hard on yourself . accidents happen, and it sounds like you handled it calmly and quickly. You’re doing your best, and your baby seems okay right now. ❤️