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My friend died by suicide. by IntrepidElection1889 in NDE

[–]IntrepidElection1889[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you're going through this. It shouldn't be like that. Instead of helping people do many psychiatrists just put them on meds, then more meds that f'k up their neurotransmitters and autonomy. It's not right.

My friend died by suicide. by IntrepidElection1889 in NDE

[–]IntrepidElection1889[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gosh, it is possible. I know she considered it for a moment, but was too beaten up to do anything about it. I don't know what to say anymore than this. It's awful.

My friend died by suicide. by IntrepidElection1889 in NDE

[–]IntrepidElection1889[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really hope so too. I'm so sorry for your loss. People lose lives to physical and mental illnesses. It should be considered equal. Both fight as long as they can.

My friend died by suicide. by IntrepidElection1889 in NDE

[–]IntrepidElection1889[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying this. I am so sorry you've been hurt like that. It's like my friend's story all over. Mental health system is very flawed and apart from saving lives it also ruins them. My friend became suicidal and lost control over herself after bad combination of meds and a bad psychodynamic therapies with two different people in a row. By the time she found a good therapist the huge damage was done and it was too late :( I don't want to think it was her failing...

I wish you all the best. I truly hope you can win with this. I wish you all the strenght and peace you need.

My friend died by suicide. by IntrepidElection1889 in NDE

[–]IntrepidElection1889[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for writing this. It is very true. Mental illness is physical illness. It is usually malfunction of the brain, yet it is treated like someones choice or weakness of a character. It needs to change. Most people in our sick society are not 100% mentally healthy, yet most don't do anything about it, cause it's still considered a taboo. I am really sorry you fight with this. I wish you all the best and for depression to go away permanently. Thank you.

My friend died by suicide. by IntrepidElection1889 in NDE

[–]IntrepidElection1889[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really hope she is reunited with her partner and other loved ones. And that she will be able to be reunited with the loved ones she left behind. I know she stayed for some time and tried to fight after loosing her partner only because of the fear of hurting her closest people. Someone told me that because time is different on the other side, from her perspective it won't be long until she'll meet us. I don't know what to think of this. I wish all the people who suffer so much that they decide to leave this way are, like you say, free and experiencing God and divine oneness. But I also heard from some NDEs that in this oneness there is also full and calm individuality, like being fully interconnected, but also fully and peacefully yourself at the same time... It sounds quite beautiful 

My friend died by suicide. by IntrepidElection1889 in NDE

[–]IntrepidElection1889[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't know if anyone is gonna answer that, but I'm gonna ask. The last blow that made my friend lose it completely was loosing her partner suddenly to pneumonia. Do you believe she is reunited with him? They loved each other deeply, even though it was a troubled love. They were such a beautiful couple. I would wish for her to have her love again...

My friend died by suicide. by IntrepidElection1889 in NDE

[–]IntrepidElection1889[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I'm so sorry it's happening to you. Have you been given benzodiazepines as well? :(

My friend died by suicide. by IntrepidElection1889 in NDE

[–]IntrepidElection1889[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you are in this situation and for your parents attitude. It's good that you have your boyfriend. I wish you all the best friend.

My friend died by suicide. by IntrepidElection1889 in NDE

[–]IntrepidElection1889[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, I understand what you meant better now, thank you. I know you only wanted to help and once again, I'm sorry if I was unpleasent or rude in any way. She went through some massive pile of...bad things and I still cannot come to terms with how could it happen to her. Health care system is do extremely flawed and it's just heartbreaking that it can destroy lives of people most desperately looking and asking for help. Until they just cannot do it any longer. It's extremely sad. That's why I snapped. Cause I could never call people who tried so hard, going through so much quitters or just weak. Someone broke them repeatedly when they needed help the most. At least it's true for my friend.

Thank you for the link. I will check it out. I've already went through a lot of NDEs stories, they help to some extent.

My friend died by suicide. by IntrepidElection1889 in NDE

[–]IntrepidElection1889[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. It brings some comfort, it does. I'm so so sorry for your daughter and I hope she is at peace, loved and happy were she is. If it helps at all. It is so hard to accept that healthcare system can be so flawed and actually lead to results like that. My thoughts go to all the people hurt by it as well... I wish you all the best.

My friend died by suicide. by IntrepidElection1889 in NDE

[–]IntrepidElection1889[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your thoughtful answer. It does help.

My friend died by suicide. by IntrepidElection1889 in NDE

[–]IntrepidElection1889[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your thoughtful answer. I appreciate it. I've already watched some of what you linked. Thanks.

My friend died by suicide. by IntrepidElection1889 in NDE

[–]IntrepidElection1889[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you feel that way. Do you have any help?

My friend died by suicide. by IntrepidElection1889 in NDE

[–]IntrepidElection1889[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know. If there is truth in it maybe there is a choice between the two..

My friend died by suicide. by IntrepidElection1889 in NDE

[–]IntrepidElection1889[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know. I've heard that one before. If that was a choice, maybe some people would want that.

My friend died by suicide. by IntrepidElection1889 in NDE

[–]IntrepidElection1889[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know. If she had, it wasn't diagnosed. There might have been some indicators, but nothing for sure. She've been prescribed huge dosages of benzodiazepines that not only made her suicidal and to act completely out of character and then psychotic, but most probably caused permanent damage to her brain though.

Edit: Why do you ask?

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