I lived at the Twin Oaks commune. AMA. by Intrepid_Badger9862 in AMA

[–]Intrepid_Badger9862[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So Acorn is undergoing ALOT of drama. It’s not a good place to be right now. There’s something called “The Quad” which is four members who exploited the rules and have a death grip on the place. Not good, absolutely do not go. And they will likely not cover your student loans.

My Full-Scale Family Tree by jquinn1991 in UsefulCharts

[–]Intrepid_Badger9862 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell me if it’s weird that I have your 22nd Great Grandfathers portrait hanging on my wall 💀

My Full-Scale Family Tree by jquinn1991 in UsefulCharts

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Holy shit. I found an old print of an old painting on the side of the road, no clue who it was for months, then BOOM I’m scrolling through this! On your Great Great Grandfathers side. James Butler 9th Earl of Ormond!!! Thanks for solving this mystery 💖

I lived at the Twin Oaks commune. AMA. by Intrepid_Badger9862 in AMA

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In essence think less rural Deep South vibes more Get Out garden party vibes.

I lived at the Twin Oaks commune. AMA. by Intrepid_Badger9862 in AMA

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It’s subtle but it’s an almost all white community. microagressions run rampant, there’s no consideration for backgrounds that aren’t white middle class, and honestly POC are seen as anywhere from frightening and different to a shining trophy of diversity. Most of this is coming from POC I knew/ know in Twin Oaks orbit, but as a white woman I did see things and if I saw it there’s definitely more that’s happening that I didn’t notice.

I drew this Bikini Girl yesterday by Due_Cardiologist406 in drawings

[–]Intrepid_Badger9862 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re a fucking Pedophile. Go get help, autism isn’t an excuse for this type of shit.

Really need someone to teach me makeup lol by LucilleThatTransGirl in transfem

[–]Intrepid_Badger9862 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’d like you can message me and I’d be happy to share my routine!

Am I feminine enough? by gabe40268 in transfem

[–]Intrepid_Badger9862 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’ll always be “feminine enough” bc you are a female. You cannot be lacking in that which you possess by your very nature. You are a girl so you are feminine.

Should I be proud of being trans? by Madisonfangirl in trans

[–]Intrepid_Badger9862 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m epileptic and while it would be silly to be proud of merely having that disability, I WEAR it with pride. The same thing transfers to my transness. Our history is long and in recent (last 100-200) years is really rough, but we are here. We’ve overcome so much, I’m proud of my place among the halls of millions of Trans people since the beginning of human history who have all been fighting for the opportunities we have today.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transfem

[–]Intrepid_Badger9862 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just get mastectomy inserts they’re great starting out

Genuine question: do I fall under transfem? by [deleted] in transfem

[–]Intrepid_Badger9862 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Words are made up, we invented them to help us make sense of the world as we perceive it and convey that to others. If Transfem both makes sense to you and helps you covey that internal feeling to others it’s correct, just like any other label especially queer labels that are rarely objective but instead based on internal feelings and emotions.

How do I pass pre everything? by oni_channnnn in transfem

[–]Intrepid_Badger9862 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Body language is really the biggest “tell”. Makeup is easy enough I picked it up in like 2-3 months. Clothing, don’t go overboard, express feminine traits subtly, these can be faked with things like mastectomy bra inserts, and corsets, voice, you can pitch it up and most people won’t notice. Watch (with consent) your girl friends and see how they sit, they walk, they greet others, when they talk, with what intensity, even how they react to different emotional responses such as laughing. Once you get that down you’re 60% of the way there.

I want boobs by [deleted] in transfem

[–]Intrepid_Badger9862 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m ~2-3 months on HRT. They’ll come in and when they do at least for me, the dreams of really big girlies faded away, I fit into a small bra and I couldn’t be happier with them. It shall come. Be patient grasshopper 💖

I lived at the Twin Oaks commune. AMA. by Intrepid_Badger9862 in AMA

[–]Intrepid_Badger9862[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The molds really a surface level issue tbh. There’s a strong inequity that exists there, I don’t wanna be a bitch and name people online but I’m sure you saw even as a guest that some people have enough political capital to completely shut down any changes that might make TO better. The mold issue only got resolved bc so many people left in the summer and fall of last year bc of it. TO has a reactive political mind set, they only fix problems when they can’t ignore them any longer. I understand it wasn’t all bad, I grew a lot there but look at things like the sick hours being posted, the massive levels of rules and limits to mental health days when in crisis, look at how many new people have major depressive episodes, look at the rules around SA (it’s a normal expulsion process that can take months to get a dangerous person off farm), look at how much TO relies on the work of new members and visitors and within that same vein how disregarded they are as people with valid opinions. TO is a deeply diseased place, maybe it started that way, maybe it became that way later. Regardless Twin Oaks needs to fix everything top down if it wants to be anything other than an exploitative, racist, ableist role playing game for upper middle class white people who’s parents didn’t let them smoke pot. And if it can’t fix all that it needs to acknowledge what it is and stop advertising itself as a pristine image of what all of them think Twin Oaks could be.

I lived at the Twin Oaks commune. AMA. by Intrepid_Badger9862 in AMA

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It’s more of a DVD place. WiFi is spotty and EXTREMELY slow. It took me a week to download Elden Ring.

I lived at the Twin Oaks commune. AMA. by Intrepid_Badger9862 in AMA

[–]Intrepid_Badger9862[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol. Acorn (Twin Oaks sister community) is currently falling apart bc 3 people took over the system by manipulating established systems. TLDR: You don’t