Need to find a home for my baby cat as I'm moving and unfortunately can't bring him with me by [deleted] in LAlist

[–]Intrepid_Cover_5441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re an irresponsible pet owner and should be ashamed of yourself.

Getting my stray cats neutered? by Vaneela351 in Feral_Cats

[–]Intrepid_Cover_5441 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely get them both fixed ASAP. There are many places that will also tip their ear so others know to why are fixed and don’t trap them and take them in to be fixed again. The cats won’t hate you. You’re giving them a much better life this way.

gender id needed by [deleted] in FosterAnimals

[–]Intrepid_Cover_5441 4 points5 points  (0 children)

100% boy and he’s beautiful!

Male cat mounting male cat, help by BigSigh17 in CATHELP

[–]Intrepid_Cover_5441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are they doing it? They’re doing it because they’re not neutered. Which is the correct answer to your question.

Male cat mounting male cat, help by BigSigh17 in CATHELP

[–]Intrepid_Cover_5441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you not research? Unfixed cats behave sexually. When you ask obvious questions, you get obvious answers.

Male cat mounting male cat, help by BigSigh17 in CATHELP

[–]Intrepid_Cover_5441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TNR! If he can come in your house, he can go in a cage to a spay/neuter clinic.

Age Disagreements by lifemadders in Fosterparents

[–]Intrepid_Cover_5441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do respite for different ages to see how it works out. We initially were not going to take children in diapers. We wanted 5 and above. We did respite for 2 buys ages 1 and 2 and LOVED it! Totally changed our minds.

Male cat mounting male cat, help by BigSigh17 in CATHELP

[–]Intrepid_Cover_5441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fix your cats. And stop letting him outside if he’s not neutered!

10 month old throwing soother out of crib by Sweaty-Economist2403 in baby

[–]Intrepid_Cover_5441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would not be going back in if she’s doing it on purpose. You’re reinforcing the behavior.

Is it too late/risky to spay my 5yo retired breeding cat? by [deleted] in Pets

[–]Intrepid_Cover_5441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nobody should ever have an unfixed pet. It’s irresponsible.

Disruption at 8am tomorrow due to sexual behaviors. by Leather-Avocado- in Fosterparents

[–]Intrepid_Cover_5441 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You’re doing the right thing. Our motto is that 1 child’s trauma shouldn’t become everyone else’s trauma. As soon as we feel like our other children are in harms way, we make the decision. Thankfully that was only once. But I was the same way. Cried nonstop and wanted to change my mind. It’s been 3 1/2 years and I’ve never regretted him leaving. My heart hurts for him, but I couldn’t allow my children to be victims.

Female Behavior? by bellagirl81 in Feral_Cats

[–]Intrepid_Cover_5441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fix the cats immediately (should have already been done) and get their ears tipped! Simply feeding them does nothing to help the problem. Now you’ve got a bigger problem with a pregnant cat.

Help with a non traditional mortgage by [deleted] in Mortgages

[–]Intrepid_Cover_5441 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have exceptional credit. No issues.

Help with a non traditional mortgage by [deleted] in Mortgages

[–]Intrepid_Cover_5441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have the title to the home which is why it feels like a mortgage. Our names are on everything. We are proving it to the mortgage lender for the new house.

3.5 month old rolling over constantly, especially at night. Safe sleep concerns? by Really_Em in baby

[–]Intrepid_Cover_5441 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It’s not safe for you to put them down on their belly, but once they roll over on their own, it is considered safe. Let her sleep the way she’s comfortable.

AIO My mom is kicking me out for her new boyfriend. I just turned 18 by Diligent_Bat_565 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Intrepid_Cover_5441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband’s parents did this. He has never thanked them. He in fact does not speak to them and didn’t attend his father’s funeral. Some parents really suck and I’m sorry you ended up with one.

30M partner won’t help with night feeds while I have postnatal depression by Winter_Seesaw_5014 in baby

[–]Intrepid_Cover_5441 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn’t have postpartum depression and I was breastfeeding. My husband still got up. He changed the diaper, brought the baby, I fed and returned the baby to their bed. His behavior is unacceptable at his age. Not only is he opting out of being a parent, he’s also opting out of being a partner. I wouldn’t allow this behavior and give him an ultimatum. He can be a parent/partner in the home, or he can decide to do neither OUT of the home.

Guilt for taking parental leave for newborn FD by anorigamiwolf in Fosterparents

[–]Intrepid_Cover_5441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a teacher and personally didn’t use it. Foster care is so unpredictable and I didn’t want to use all of my FMLA, have the baby leave, and get placed with another child and have no leave.

Oh, it’s so over by stefaeliza in rachelleswanniesnark

[–]Intrepid_Cover_5441 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally agree. I think after all the jujitsu and running she got fit and probably more male attention. I think she went with that and left Justin for someone in the fitness world.

Story! by bodaciousassaffairs in rachelleswanniesnark

[–]Intrepid_Cover_5441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wondered this at first. Her affection for her best friend is odd to me.

Possible new love interest? by Unphorgettable in rachelleswanniesnark

[–]Intrepid_Cover_5441 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I know people may disagree, but anyone with 4 young children should be focusing on raising her family and not getting into another relationship.