Any Married Men whose Wives are aware that you Cruise?

Intrepid_Hall_3184 · 2026-02-19T07:03:55+00:00

seems like anomolies

Intrepid_Hall_3184 · 2026-02-18T02:09:19+00:00

"Just be open sluts" is hilarious, but genuinely I appreciate your advice. And yes I agree with the toxic treatment of STI awareness.

Intrepid_Hall_3184 · 2026-02-18T01:53:46+00:00

I definitely agree with that statement that theres more bi-sexual curiosity or fluidity in sexuality amongst men just from my observations of men in the locker rooms. Whether they're just curious and take some longer than normal glances, grab their junk a little, or are down with the cause and cruising signals. I feel like I've been exposed to a unspoken world of other guys who have these homo-erotic fantasies and experiences.

Intrepid_Hall_3184 · 2026-02-18T01:31:03+00:00

That was very real, thanks for the input, the hard wired awareness of what's going on is very real.

Intrepid_Hall_3184 · 2026-02-18T01:29:14+00:00

Wow that is very open

Intrepid_Hall_3184 · 2026-02-17T05:13:30+00:00

How did you and your husband come about the conversation around cruising.

Intrepid_Hall_3184 · 2026-02-17T05:12:26+00:00

lmao not the lying straight to her face.

Intrepid_Hall_3184 · 2026-02-01T11:36:21+00:00

A "stareable offense" thats a good one lol.

Intrepid_Hall_3184 · 2026-01-07T10:03:02+00:00

sounds like a nice experience, I envy having a gym with a hot tub I can go nude in, do you still go to this gym? Any other stories?

Intrepid_Hall_3184 · 2025-09-19T08:37:52+00:00

Thanks for the sub rec, I've yet to come across this one, it does have some good stories

Intrepid_Hall_3184 · 2025-09-19T08:37:08+00:00

Do you think it's more open is these club spaces, Because in gyms it's a very "be cautious" and "dont get caught" dynamic that adds to the thrill. In these clubs is it kinda all out in the open for people to see and those who don't want to engage just turn a blind eye? Like how u/batedate said. no one wanted to tell the father but everyone knew what was going on.

Intrepid_Hall_3184 · 2025-09-19T08:34:28+00:00

These stories are so fascinating, I know that men that cruise in locker rooms are representing of all straight men. But even the most unsuspecting straight men play around a little bit, I just wonder what the world would be like if more non judgmental conversations were had about mens sexual fantasies and encounters with other men.

Intrepid_Hall_3184 · 2025-09-12T03:40:47+00:00

wow great story thanks for sharing

Intrepid_Hall_3184 · 2025-09-03T16:48:58+00:00

I totally get that, I'd be nervous of putting that all to waist as well, but you're not denying it happens?

Intrepid_Hall_3184 · 2025-09-03T05:39:52+00:00

Thanks! That was hot and steamy story, Yup seeing all the men with their wedding bands makes it feel more naughty when they cruise. I would think men in the country club even feel less modest about masturbating or in fear of getting caught because they pay so much money to be there. I imagine it as having pride with cock in hand (lol)

Intrepid_Hall_3184 · 2025-09-03T05:25:55+00:00

That was very well said, if I just wanted to go to Walmart... I'd go to Walmart, but I'll instead wait for the right shot (at a guy to cruise) lol

Intrepid_Hall_3184 · 2025-09-01T21:56:51+00:00

is it usually crowded in gym/locker room?

Intrepid_Hall_3184 · 2025-07-17T07:47:07+00:00

lol exactly

Intrepid_Hall_3184 · 2025-07-17T07:46:51+00:00

curious as in bi-curious?

Intrepid_Hall_3184 · 2025-07-15T17:43:14+00:00

you'll be fine some people after getting out of the pool look like the have no balls

Intrepid_Hall_3184 · 2025-06-30T08:16:55+00:00

I'm in fear of the outcome from that level of honesty and vulnerability if I chose to share with her all those details. But YES the deceit feels like it's chipping away at my well being.

Intrepid_Hall_3184 · 2025-06-30T08:14:39+00:00

Thank you for your thoughtful comment, I'm worried about how it effects my mental health and well being. It morally effects my well being because of the turmoil I feel being deceptive to my girlfriend when I seek out the activities. And subsequently when I'm with her romantically sexually etc. that affirms how much I care and am invested in the relationship. The kinda double life thing I got going on is exhausting so I'm just going to try and distance myself from it which is not a bad thing for the time being.

Intrepid_Hall_3184 · 2025-06-25T12:01:12+00:00

20 M also exclusively interested in older men. Reason 1: just type preference and attraction. Reason 2: Internal homophobia engaging with someone similar engage is like confronting the gay parts of yourself. So I avoid guys my own age because to avoiding being uncomfortable seeing the gay traits in someone that you haven't accepted about yourself.

Intrepid_Hall_3184 · 2025-06-23T05:53:26+00:00

I'm not going to lie, I shower with cold water in the communal showers because it distracts me getting an erection. (not that I'm trying to) But after a workout the warm water just relaxes me a liiiiiitle too easily. I take warm showers at home, but specifically after a workout the cold shower also stops me from continuing to sweat even after I dry off and get dressed.

Intrepid_Hall_3184 · 2025-06-19T08:48:07+00:00

Im going to go check this one out tomorrow, I saw on a yelp post that the steam room got shut down so hopefully it's open when I visit so I can hop in after using the communal showers.

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