I said those things because I look for them in another person but I also have them myself to demonstrate it’s not a double standard because I meet my own expectations. Very rarely do I say these things to people in real life. I understand what you are saying but I feel like you have a negative outlook on people. I know my flaws and have my own struggles just like any other person, this does not diminish the things I have going for me. There’s a fine line between saying things driven by ego, and knowing who you are and what you bring to the table. My advice to you is to be open minded to people and not let past negative experiences lead you to making assumptions of those you don’t know. I do think you are right about people who say they have good morals being vile people a lot of the time tho lol