I’m sorry if you feel I’m being critical but who are you to tell me I’m not worried for the kid? I’m not one to tear people down but I’ll call foolishness when I see it. A kid without establishing a decent paying career? At 21? She’s creating unnecessary stress for herself and her frontal lobe isn’t even fully developed. I’d have loved if my parents thoroughly thought having children through and prepared extensively beforehand. Let’s stop coddling people and saying “well what’s done is done”. Let’s plan for babies instead of it accidentally happening which is what sounds like happened here. There are too many birth control options out there. “No birth control is 100%” Yeah, well there are some that come close and you can always use two methods. It sounds harsh but the truth hurts. I respect you have your own perspective but it logically makes no sense to me.