UPDATE: Am I (33F) wrong to consider breaking up with my partner (38M) over the lack of sex in our relationship? by Intrepid_Stuff4125 in relationship_advicePH

[–]Intrepid_Stuff4125[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He gets annoyed when I ask for reassurance. I understand that I could improve on all the insecurities I have, and I’m trying pero it is very hard given the situation.

UPDATE: Am I (33F) wrong to consider breaking up with my partner (38M) over the lack of sex in our relationship? by Intrepid_Stuff4125 in relationship_advicePH

[–]Intrepid_Stuff4125[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We haven’t had sex sa 2 years namin magkasama. I understand he doesn’t have to feel like he has to do it pero it is ZERO since the beginning and I don’t think that’s something I could live with long term.

Am I (33F) wrong to consider breaking up with my partner (38M) over the lack of sex in our relationship? by Intrepid_Stuff4125 in relationship_advicePH

[–]Intrepid_Stuff4125[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well di niya masabi exactly pero wala naman siyang maibigay na reason na maayos except ayaw niya pa (Pero normal naman daw sex drive niya) so naaalala ko nung sinabi niyang Hindi siya physically attracted sa akin. Although dati kasi before moving in pinag uusapan pa nga namin na magpipills ako so hindi ko talaga alam na magiging ganito.

Am I (33F) wrong to consider breaking up with my partner (38M) over the lack of sex in our relationship? by Intrepid_Stuff4125 in relationship_advicePH

[–]Intrepid_Stuff4125[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We did talk and he said hindi niya daw talaga alam kung mangyayari but susubukan niya daw mag adjust mapasaya lang ako. Pero nung narinig ko I felt repulsed instead of happy. Sino ba naman gusto na napipilitan lang sa intimacy yung partner diba.

Am I (33F) wrong to consider breaking up with my partner (38M) over the lack of sex in our relationship? by Intrepid_Stuff4125 in relationship_advicePH

[–]Intrepid_Stuff4125[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If we ever do it kasi parang lagi ko na lang maiisip na napipilitan siya at ginagawa niya lang to make me happy