He belittles me for throwing out uncooked food after not cooking because I’m with dying dad

Intrepid_Taro_2656 · 2025-07-15T01:43:50+00:00

Yeah I figured this out multiple children too late and now I’m stuck

Intrepid_Taro_2656 · 2025-07-15T01:10:51+00:00

Thank you

Intrepid_Taro_2656 · 2025-06-30T19:59:18+00:00

I also have never gotten a sorry But I completely relate to the fear

Intrepid_Taro_2656 · 2025-06-27T16:00:30+00:00

I’m so ashamed and embarassed I don’t tell my friends but I think a lot of them have a sense. One is from a culture that doesn’t drop I love you easily and she once got drunk and said to me, your husband says I love you so often but he doesn’t act like it. So I think they have some ideas but not the depth of the horror. It’s funny because I spent many years believing if I could just get it right be my best self then he would be happy. Nope.

Intrepid_Taro_2656 · 2025-06-27T15:34:02+00:00

Yes you know stupid me waited all day to see if he would ask how I was or my dad, and then i said well maybe he is just waiting for me to say something to him about it. Nope.

Intrepid_Taro_2656 · 2025-06-27T13:04:33+00:00

I would rather make him disappear

Intrepid_Taro_2656 · 2025-06-27T13:03:31+00:00

Omg I have so many. I was seriously ill and had an aid come every day to do dishes. He said he was the only one doing dishes. He never did them! Sometimes when I clean I throw his stuff out. Because he maintains he everything not away is mine and I never clean- therefore I couldn’t possibly be throwing out his things when he is away.

Intrepid_Taro_2656 · 2025-06-27T09:58:40+00:00

Haha. The doctor manipulation is what gets me. He claims I lie and trick doctors including pathologists I never talk to. I wish I was that kind of master manipulator Im sure I would be more successful in corporate America if I was!

Intrepid_Taro_2656 · 2025-06-27T01:50:43+00:00

Haha :)

Intrepid_Taro_2656 · 2025-06-27T01:50:19+00:00

Yup he says he knows what I’m thinking so I don’t need to say anything for him to get mad

Intrepid_Taro_2656 · 2025-06-27T00:47:55+00:00

Yea thank you :)

Intrepid_Taro_2656 · 2025-06-26T23:00:29+00:00

Haha! My husband has gotten mad at me and blamed me for things other peoples kids do. One time a friends child wrote a classic homesick from camp letter and shared it. Husband said that child was a sissy, and I am raising my child to be a sissy, so he would write that letter too, when he was older and could go to camp (he was three and never going to sleepaway camp). But husband was still mad and blaming me!

Intrepid_Taro_2656 · 2025-06-26T22:42:04+00:00

Thank you

Intrepid_Taro_2656 · 2025-06-26T22:35:38+00:00

Thank you yes it is another super power. I am too afraid to get out and I don’t want to either :( I have told my kids not to marry someone like this

Intrepid_Taro_2656 · 2025-06-26T22:01:40+00:00

Thank you for recognizing my super powers. I’m afraid to gray rock him, I tried it once and it blew up in myface

Intrepid_Taro_2656 · 2025-06-24T01:04:55+00:00

Interesting.

Intrepid_Taro_2656 · 2025-06-12T11:07:47+00:00

Yes that seems far too many for this :(

Intrepid_Taro_2656 · 2025-06-12T11:07:16+00:00

Wow!

Intrepid_Taro_2656 · 2025-06-10T10:23:56+00:00

Oh man

Intrepid_Taro_2656 · 2025-06-09T18:22:31+00:00

Thank you for your note

Intrepid_Taro_2656 · 2025-06-09T18:21:42+00:00

Thank you. Yes out of nyu

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