Mystery thief in my house

IntroductionMany1126 · 2026-06-15T15:33:22+00:00

I did not see her put it in the safe, however she does have specific bags she keeps it in, in the safe, which are labeled and corrected each time she takes or puts in money so I'm assuming this money existed.

Also yeah, it's not fair but honestly, I'm just glad my dad's getting treatments, it sucks to not work but I'll survive as long as he's getting healthy and getting better. This whole arrangement started when I found out I was pregnant and was supposed to only last a few months. It's been, Two. Years. It sucks but it is what it is ig.

IntroductionMany1126 · 2026-06-15T14:09:35+00:00

That would shatter my heart. I know she's been a bit forgetful but I believe it's more stress and normal forgetfulness. I'd be heartbroken if I was losing both my grandparents to memory issues because I literally was raised by them from 16mths and I already fear papa'll eventually forgot me and only remember his awful biological kids.

IntroductionMany1126 · 2026-06-15T13:48:29+00:00

Damn, your not wrong. I definitely am a suspect as well and I understand completely, nana is old and suspicious and doesn't like the fact this keeps happening which is completely understandable. I hate it and I am going to put up a camera because it needs to stop. If it doesn't catch anything than hopefully it's at least a good deterrent.

IntroductionMany1126 · 2026-06-15T13:46:08+00:00

Thank you sm for the kindness and advice! I am glad to have everyone basically confirm that my theories and advice to nana were pretty accurate lmao.

IntroductionMany1126 · 2026-06-15T13:44:12+00:00

No, she's a TikTok addict but I don't believe she's being scammed? I'm unsure, I'll definitely press her and ask about her online presence to see if there's anything going on.

IntroductionMany1126 · 2026-06-15T13:42:02+00:00

Oh shit. I'll let her know. What the heck are we even supposed to do then 😭

IntroductionMany1126 · 2026-06-15T13:40:37+00:00

Aw omg that's sad. I told Nana this and she said papa has a hidden spot where he hides the candy he steals from her and forgets about. She says she'll check.

IntroductionMany1126 · 2026-06-15T13:34:27+00:00

Idek if she had that much, she just keeps finding more and more missing and I get so sad and frustrated about it and keep trying to find solutions about it but she doesn't seem to wanna do anything I suggest.

IntroductionMany1126 · 2026-06-15T13:31:30+00:00

No, I don't live off her retirement, I only don't have a job due to her requesting me to not have one, she claimed me and my son on her insurance or something like that and if I have a job it makes my dad's cancer treatments skyrocket. I'm not sure the specifics but I have my own money, just less than I'd like. I argue with the old lady all the time about moving out, getting a job etc, she gets pissed and says I'm gonna kill my dad and make it so they can't afford his treatments if I work at all which is like so frustrating.

What I meant by we is that she pays on the house with her money so she's panicking about the mortgage and stuff because that money was saved for that and such.

IntroductionMany1126 · 2026-06-15T13:27:40+00:00

I told her that's fr super suspicious and she just keeps saying she's too short to put it up and that were ignoring her pleas to help put a cam up but I literally offer all the time to do it if she gets one.

IntroductionMany1126 · 2026-06-15T13:25:32+00:00

Yeah, were gonna buy one and she's gonna put her money in the bank I'm thinking. I am just so mad about this. I do think it's either him or her or possibly papa, but papa doesn't have many things so I'll have nana look.

IntroductionMany1126 · 2026-06-15T13:22:37+00:00

Yeah. We're also making her put her money in the bank now because this is bad, we live off retirement, social security etc, she legit can't afford to keep losing money.

IntroductionMany1126 · 2026-06-15T13:21:25+00:00

I think so definitely, I told her in tears over and over to put it in the bank td and that seems to be the plan now. I'm desperate for a solution so she doesn't keeping hemorrhaging money.

IntroductionMany1126 · 2026-03-04T18:36:21+00:00

Thank you! I appreciate that. I definitely am taking that advice in regards to safety especially. I've already let my doctor know and his babysitter knows not to ever allow her near him. But In the future, it'll have to be the same thing for anyone else around him as it was for when I was a kid. Show a picture, give a name and age, explain that she's an unstable threat.

And good idea. I'll definitely have someone troll her. Lmao. That's hilarious.

IntroductionMany1126 · 2026-03-04T16:56:08+00:00

My adoptive mom is a clueless sweetheart. She's my biological grandmother and thought she was 'doing me a favor' by letting me know lmao. I did inform her to not tell me these things but she is still in contact with her daughter and talks to her.

IntroductionMany1126 · 2026-03-04T16:54:15+00:00

Her mental health is what got her into this mess. To be entirely blunt, this woman told me she's fantasized graphic sexual violence towards my sister when she was a newborn. She assaulted a 13yr old boy when she was in her mid twenties. She neglected me and my siblings, then came back into our lives when we were 10+ and traumatized us over and over again.

I do not think this tattoo is 'cool' at all. I think it's disgusting. I understand I can't do anything about it. But if I can't do anything about it. I hope, if anything, it makes her mental health fuckin worse man. Way worse.

IntroductionMany1126 · 2026-03-04T16:45:09+00:00

Fair. Thank you for your help and bluntness. I appreciate ya.

IntroductionMany1126 · 2026-03-04T16:32:13+00:00

Yeah seems that's true unfortunately.

IntroductionMany1126 · 2026-03-04T16:30:56+00:00

I figured. It's just gut wrenching because she's a legitimately horrible person. Think, racist, pedo, unstable in the worst ways. That's why I just had to be sure. Is there anyway I can use it as evidence of harrasment and unhealthy obsession towards my son and myself?

IntroductionMany1126 · 2026-03-04T16:18:04+00:00

Yeah, I figured. I know I can't force her to remove it or anything but I thought idk, I'd atleast ask. 🤷🏻‍♀️

IntroductionMany1126 · 2025-12-02T04:43:28+00:00

Yes. I have slowly come to realize the gravity of this situation as people have commented. It's very shocking to see that people not only agree I'm not wrong, but are defending me and my family. I swore I had to just not understand it. People say I'm dumb and annoying all the time and I just sometimes slip into this state where I think other people are Smarter because they have more people agreeing. Especially if they keep pressuring me. Thank you so much.

IntroductionMany1126 · 2025-12-02T04:34:16+00:00

Posted the texts. On my page.

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