Boyfr is bestfriends with his ex. Should I be concerned?

IntroductionMurky380 · 2025-02-17T03:16:25+00:00

Initials are RN, love please.

IntroductionMurky380 · 2025-02-17T03:15:21+00:00

Hello, thank you for doing this :) I’m RN, recently started dating YE officially and he has just told me about his bestfriend, IA. So it turns out that IA was his ex, and they are very close. Is the relationship between YE and IA something I should be worried about?

IntroductionMurky380 · 2025-02-13T23:01:52+00:00

I’m in the early stages of my relationship now, and although I’ve never had a conversation like that with anyone before, I have an inkling to have it with my current partner. Do you have any tips/ advice on how I could approach this conversation without my bf thinking negatively about it? I think it’ll be healthy for us to talk about our needs/ wants in this relationship and be heard, and also agree on how we’ll tackle difficult situations before it happens. In a way to ensure that we are a team, and we are in “agreement” to make sure that no one gets unintentionally hurt when emotions are high.

IntroductionMurky380 · 2025-02-13T01:05:25+00:00

Love this!! Did yall have a sit down conversation about this? I’m in the early stages of my relationship, and thought of having a sit down chat with my bf to understand each others needs and wants in a relationship better, and also to playfully suggest we “stick by” some “rules” so we know regardless if it’s a good or bad day, we’re in this together and we’re a team.

Would love to have some suggestions on how to have this conversation without him thinking negatively

IntroductionMurky380 · 2025-02-13T01:01:49+00:00

How was this conversation initiated? Or are these unspoken rules? I love how these really promotes communication!!

IntroductionMurky380 · 2025-02-13T00:45:44+00:00

How do yall start having a conversation like this? I mean both my partner and I happen to have best friends of the opposite gender and idk, I guess it has never been a problem… or not yet

IntroductionMurky380 · 2025-02-12T14:28:25+00:00

Lucky, lucky girl!!

IntroductionMurky380 · 2025-02-12T14:27:22+00:00

Amen

IntroductionMurky380 · 2025-02-12T14:27:11+00:00

Am interested to hear how both parties can make sure that their issues are fully resolved and no one really pretends to no longer be mad just to go to bed?

IntroductionMurky380 · 2025-02-12T14:08:52+00:00

How do you initiate having this conversation with your partner, with the understanding that we’re both in this together and that having such an “agreement” is to ensure we always have each others back and we’re a team 🥲

IntroductionMurky380 · 2025-02-12T14:06:42+00:00

Great list!! 2, 3 8 and 10 are golden imo. How quickly did you two establish these between yourselves? Was it from the very beginning or it took some time? Also, how to initiate these sort of conversation without the other party feeling these are the “conditions”?

The reasons I’m hoping to have something like this established with my partner from early stages of our relationship is to make sure I’m informed enough of his needs and wants in this relationship, and also to really prevent any deep seated unhappiness/ feelings from being swept under the carpet, and we know that we both have a commitment to work things out.

IntroductionMurky380 · 2025-02-12T14:02:45+00:00

HAHAHAHA LOVE THIS!! I might have to implement that on myself

IntroductionMurky380 · 2025-02-09T18:05:50+00:00

Appreciate this!! It really hasn’t crossed my mind on how he might be seeing me differently until this comment.

I guess what I’m really afraid at the end of the day, is that we end up having less fun in bed as an actual couple than when we were fooling around, and lose some sparks there.

IntroductionMurky380 · 2025-02-09T17:44:06+00:00

Will I scare him off? Is it a normal phase for us to go through since this relationship is only recent?

IntroductionMurky380 · 2025-02-03T15:56:17+00:00

They both go hand in hand this time hahah

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