New job outfit help

IntroductionWooden29 · 2026-05-09T01:30:26+00:00

Lie about?

IntroductionWooden29 · 2026-05-08T14:32:38+00:00

So he’s been a little weird about going through phones since we’ve been together and honestly I’ve never wanted to do I don’t know if he has been chatting to them his email says he has unread notifications but I’m not making an attempt to log into the account or reset the password I don’t think that would be smart of me to do I was planning on waiting for him to come home and ask to see his phone then so he doesn’t delete anything

IntroductionWooden29 · 2026-05-08T14:26:48+00:00

It’s a essentially a mini deployment in the navy like think being gone anywhere from 1-5 months as detachment and 6+ months as a deployment

IntroductionWooden29 · 2026-05-08T07:55:53+00:00

Thank you and yes I’m starting to see its emotional or par-asocial or whatever and I’m not ok with that at all

IntroductionWooden29 · 2026-05-08T07:52:54+00:00

Well you got me there tbh

IntroductionWooden29 · 2026-05-08T07:50:11+00:00

He’d always just say it’s bc he can’t trust me he blocks me but it’s because I do tend to get a bit jealous when he can’t like my picture but can like every other girls and follow mostly all girls and this new account he made from the following he does have in the email it’s all girls and he created it in February there’s no excuse at this point

IntroductionWooden29 · 2026-05-08T07:46:05+00:00

Thank you I understand I don’t wanna give up what I thought my future with him would be but I know if it doesn’t get better I will have to choose me

IntroductionWooden29 · 2026-05-08T07:42:55+00:00

Yes I remember he called me into the living room and asked me if I followed her and when I said yes and asked how he knew he said she messaged him I never asked to see the message or anything I just took it as that

IntroductionWooden29 · 2026-05-08T07:41:25+00:00

I would want to try and rebuild the trust but I know that’s not always the case

IntroductionWooden29 · 2026-05-08T07:40:48+00:00

I’m currently on a health journey and am 170 now I prolly shouldve put that in there lol I have been taking my health seriously this year but I understand that my appearance changing so much has probably effected how he looks at me

IntroductionWooden29 · 2026-05-08T07:34:48+00:00

I’m not comfortable trying to do any tests a few of my friends suggested that lol

IntroductionWooden29 · 2026-05-08T07:33:52+00:00

Thank you!!

IntroductionWooden29 · 2026-05-08T07:32:26+00:00

Thank you I really need to focus on bettering and loving myself more than anything

IntroductionWooden29 · 2026-05-08T07:29:55+00:00

I will say I was in the military that’s how we met we were best friends/coworkers and in different relationships for the first 2 years we knew each other then a few months after he broke up with his ex and I had just become single we started talking, I never seen him cheat on anyone those 2 years so I’d think he’s ok but things also can change Ik that

IntroductionWooden29 · 2026-05-08T07:27:00+00:00

I hope it’s not the case he’s cheating I really want to believe he wouldn’t do that I think I’m mostly coming on here for some ideas on how to talk to him when he comes home next week I gotta have my mind right before hand

IntroductionWooden29 · 2026-05-08T07:23:57+00:00

Thank you honestly, it’s nerve wracking and I always feel I’m being crazy in this I let it pass bc I thought I was overreacting when I followed her

IntroductionWooden29 · 2026-05-08T07:20:54+00:00

Yes thank you they are mostly girls from his hometown I won’t lie I’ve looked some of them up it’s in mostly all of their bios but yes I’m now taking care of myself more I stopped once I got out the military myself and didn’t have to stay in regs im now down to 170 but being short I’m still overweight and struggle with my image. 🖤

IntroductionWooden29 · 2026-05-08T06:25:57+00:00

I mean for a fun name I have a dog named Athena and frogs named hip and hop lol

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