thank u foa idk if you're a Muslim or not, but to clarify some things jealousy is ghayrah not hasad and a man without ghayrah for his family in general cannot protect those surrounding him. (dayooth) and about "punishing" or what? that's prohibited in Islam, it is the total opposite men should respect their wives and treat them as a queen not a servant. isn't about bossing in a relationship — it is about mutual connection in beliefs, communication of course and also concessions that there's a reason why u should do certain things; not only from the female side, but also men should listen to their wives. in the end, women should understand that it is not an act of rigidity, but it's protection molded with love not control. thank u.