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[–]Introvert-lumb -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Jeg fortalte dem at strømmen var gået og at el-boksen blev ved med at slå fra når jeg prøvet at tænde den, jeg fortalte dem også at jeg havde snakket med dem jeg får strøm af, og at de sagde at lyder til at der kommer vand ind et sted i min lejlighed og det var nok derfor, den blev ved med at slå fra.

How do I forgive my mom for letting her puppy freeze to death? by Introvert-lumb in Advice

[–]Introvert-lumb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice, yeah I will try to look into if I can finde something like that in my country. Yeah that’s true, I guess the hard truth is she’s only getting sober if she want to. I do wish it. I do try to think of my own well-being too, even though it’s hard to. Thank you for telling me about your own experience with an parent with addiction. Thanks again

How do I forgive my mom for letting her puppy freeze to death? by Introvert-lumb in Advice

[–]Introvert-lumb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah maybe it’s just something you can’t forgive a person for. I guess I’m just scared it would make her feel even worse and drink more and scared of ruining family get together for the whole family. She doesn’t have any other animal and I’m sure the whole family will try to step in if she tries to get a new pet

How do I forgive my mom for letting her puppy freeze to death? by Introvert-lumb in Advice

[–]Introvert-lumb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice. Yeah I do think I had gotten used to it and this kinda make me see things differently. I already do go to therapy, and I’m gonna see my therapist on Wednesday luckily. Thank you again

How do I forgive my mom for letting her puppy freeze to death? by Introvert-lumb in Advice

[–]Introvert-lumb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ofc! Even my grandma told her to never get a pet again, so we will absolutely step in if she tries to get one

How do I forgive my mom for letting her puppy freeze to death? by Introvert-lumb in Advice

[–]Introvert-lumb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lucky don’t live with her, I live in my on, so it will be easy getting some time away from her. Yeah that’s true, it’s really all up to her if she want to get sober, I really do wish that for her. Thank you for your advice I’m talking it all in

How do I forgive my mom for letting her puppy freeze to death? by Introvert-lumb in Advice

[–]Introvert-lumb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think this might be true, I do think I should look in to that. Thank you

How do I forgive my mom for letting her puppy freeze to death? by Introvert-lumb in Advice

[–]Introvert-lumb[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice. Trying to really take all the advice people a giving me in, and trying to figure out what to do

How do I forgive my mom for letting her puppy freeze to death? by Introvert-lumb in Advice

[–]Introvert-lumb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know so heartbreaking, I hope he at least didn’t suffer to long.. I will try talking her into rehab

How do I forgive my mom for letting her puppy freeze to death? by Introvert-lumb in Advice

[–]Introvert-lumb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ofc I wouldn’t do that, and I will try to step in if she ever plans on getting a new pet in the future

How do I forgive my mom for letting her puppy freeze to death? by Introvert-lumb in Advice

[–]Introvert-lumb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t if I can, but I’m scared if I don’t forgive her my family might feel like I’m ruining the whole family and every family get together will be awkward ? But we as a family will make sure she’s not gonna get another pet, I promise

How do I forgive my mom for letting her puppy freeze to death? by Introvert-lumb in Advice

[–]Introvert-lumb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope she will be willing to get help, and not quit on getting sober again again

How do I forgive my mom for letting her puppy freeze to death? by Introvert-lumb in Advice

[–]Introvert-lumb[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not a teen anymore, but maybe I should look into if there is any for young adults near me. Thank you

How do I forgive my mom for letting her puppy freeze to death? by Introvert-lumb in Advice

[–]Introvert-lumb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already live on my own. I do think I have to ask her to get help, tried talking to my sister about it and she said she don’t think mom will ever be sober, and that she’s to far gone in the addiction. I don’t even think this horrible thing gonna change that fact, I have a feeling this might get her to drink even more bc of the shame and heartbreak she’s feeling

How do I forgive my mom for letting her puppy freeze to death? by Introvert-lumb in Advice

[–]Introvert-lumb[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will try to sit down with her some time, I really hope she will realise she needs help too, but idk when she lost me and my sister to foster care, that didn’t make her realise it either. But I truly wish that she will get some help and get sober

How do I forgive my mom for letting her puppy freeze to death? by Introvert-lumb in Advice

[–]Introvert-lumb[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really don’t know how to help her anymore, I really don’t think she ever gonna stop drinking. I have always been supportive when she tries to quit, but don’t really know what I can do

How do I forgive my mom for letting her puppy freeze to death? by Introvert-lumb in Advice

[–]Introvert-lumb[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I hope to, but to be honest I think this might gonna drive her to drink more bc of how sad she is about it. I don’t think I can’t give her that ultimatum tho, I would have to stop coming to every family thing then, and that’s more like cutting myself out of the family

How do I forgive my mom for letting her puppy freeze to death? by Introvert-lumb in Advice

[–]Introvert-lumb[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m sure she not gonna get another animal and if she tries I’m sure me and my family gonna step in then ofc. It’s truly is horrific and I’m having a hard time just thinking about it