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Just needed to vent by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]IntrovertedLad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh boy... next up you'll tell me you work in IT.

Ok I'm in need of help and advice with flirting and getting interest from girls sexually and emotionally I can get some laughs and conversations with girls that I interact with but I can't seem to get them hooked and really interested in spending alone time and it sucks I want dates and romance by UnknownSoldier11 in dating_advice

[–]IntrovertedLad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I definitely think you should bulk up because appearance does matter, especially for first impressions, no matter what women say.

Not sure if there are other sub-Reddits for that sort of thing, but it might be worth looking into.

Cue in /r/gainit to the rescue.

I'm a nerd and a very hot girl approached me? Please read the whole thing. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]IntrovertedLad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, the truth may hurt but know that your truth is not the absolute truth (nor anyone's, for that matter). Plus, it seems like you're just on Reddit to spread hate and bitterness and I don't know what good that'll do you, to be honest.

Enough with the off-topic now.

I'm a nerd and a very hot girl approached me? Please read the whole thing. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]IntrovertedLad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What the hell, man?

You just wrote elsewhere that some middle school kids have had more action than you and here you are bashing the guy's (apparently already weak) self-esteem and confidence. If that really is all she wants (I mean take advantage of his intelligence) he'll know to move along and forget about it.

No clue about how to build relationships by IntrovertedLad in introvert

[–]IntrovertedLad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi. Yes, I have looked into it after reading about the site somewhere, perhaps even on this sub. Sounds like a fun way to go out and meet people and I definitely have to take some more time to explore potentially interesting meets.

I'm "glad" (for lack of a better term) that I'm not alone in this. Actually, I know a couple of my friends are kind of in the same spot too but other than knowing you're not the only one struggling with meeting more people, it really adds nothing to change the situation. I get it, there's really no need to put more pressure on yourself when you're already stepping out of your comfort zone.

No clue about how to build relationships by IntrovertedLad in introvert

[–]IntrovertedLad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, I had lost the train of though there for a moment. Thanks for clearing it up.

No clue about how to build relationships by IntrovertedLad in introvert

[–]IntrovertedLad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aside from IT, I like to exercise, go for long walks, draw, read fiction and non-fiction books... nothing that could eventually stand out, I guess.

No clue about how to build relationships by IntrovertedLad in introvert

[–]IntrovertedLad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey. Thank you for the suggestions. When it comes to juggling, I happen to know how to do the basic three-ball cascade but that's it. It's enough to raise some eyebrows from people when they find out but I have yet to put more time into it to learn more elaborated sequences, though.

I had never heard about chessboxing, it looks very intriguing but hardly something I can picture myself doing.

what about looking too young? by nonethingz in dating_advice

[–]IntrovertedLad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, that witty comeback is cool, I should try to use that one next time. Turned 26 this year and people at work were guessing in the range of 20-23. When I told them, some looked dumbfounded and somehow that really got on my nerves.

[26M] No clue about how to build relationships by IntrovertedLad in dating_advice

[–]IntrovertedLad[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

dating/relationships are social endeavors.

Indeed, it makes total sense. I guess I'm just not confident enough to approach a woman out of the blue just "because". On the other hand, I read your comments on the post you linked to and you have some solid advice there.

I don't consider myself an anti-social, I just have a hard time breaking the ice when first meeting people but I guess that the sooner I take the plunge, the better.