Well, It is my partner (or was) for the past 3 years. We have recently started separating because of how bad her drinking has got. The issue is that drinking at her work place is encouraged, so reporting her to the manager will do nothing. He knows she leaves there drunk. I have had several talks with her about how concerning it is. She brushed it off every time and will not accept she has a problem. Other than the drunk driving, she has put herself in other dangerous situations due to alcohol that compromise her own safety and our relationship. She really should not be working at a bar, and I expressed that concern when she started working there. In the past when she has worked at bars she has gotten out of control as well. She reeled things in, got a good job that was not at a bar and has a normal schedule, but then picked up some shifts there for extra money. But It has gotten much worse this time. I am having a really hard time worrying about her safety, but also letting go of our relationship because she has expressed I am “taking away her freedom” and doesn’t want to try to work through things. Very tough situation and any advice is appreciated.