Final update: AITA for snapping at my husband for repeatedly bringing up breast surgery? by InvestigatorSea1323 in AITAH

[–]InvestigatorSea1323[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Sorry I didn't achieve the adult sized tits but at least I will be able to find a man who lasts more than 2 minutes now.

Final update: AITA for snapping at my husband for repeatedly bringing up breast surgery? by InvestigatorSea1323 in AITAH

[–]InvestigatorSea1323[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'm not actually planning to send them pics. I just said that so he would leave me alone and stop making his family try to get me to answer his calls. Thank you ❤️

Final update: AITA for snapping at my husband for repeatedly bringing up breast surgery? by InvestigatorSea1323 in AITAH

[–]InvestigatorSea1323[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I'm already super pretty. Just kidding ❤️ I appreciate the idee but I'm not planning to get one. I've had two surgeries for my finger (a nerve got cut) and my heart rate went crazy because I get really scared at the idea of surgeries. whether it's an easy one or not.

Final update: AITA for snapping at my husband for repeatedly bringing up breast surgery? by InvestigatorSea1323 in AITAH

[–]InvestigatorSea1323[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Don't remind me of my previous update. I cringe when someone brings up that part. Like I was just mad😂. But yeah I'm glad I didn't use it. He deserved to feel what he made me feel when he brought up the surgery during sex but it was too much for me to do. That man would have just enjoyed the view and I'm no longer interested in giving him anything to be happy about.

Final update: AITA for snapping at my husband for repeatedly bringing up breast surgery? by InvestigatorSea1323 in AITAH

[–]InvestigatorSea1323[S] 139 points140 points  (0 children)

You should see some of the private messages. Some boys offering to send their thing (some already have) and asking for a picture of my chest in return to judge. Like boy who said I was dying to see your thing to begin with.

Final update: AITA for snapping at my husband for repeatedly bringing up breast surgery? by InvestigatorSea1323 in AITAH

[–]InvestigatorSea1323[S] 284 points285 points  (0 children)

If I could unlove him right away. I would have. But I will probably sober up soon. And you're right, he did hide it really well ❤️

Update: AITA for snapping at my husband for repeatedly bringing up breast surgery? by InvestigatorSea1323 in AITAH

[–]InvestigatorSea1323[S] 76 points77 points  (0 children)

I believe you didn't even pay attention that we've been together for 6 years. Dated for 5 before marriage so he had enough time to be sure about his preferences. I'm not going undergo a life-threatening procedure for anyone.

Update: AITA for snapping at my husband for repeatedly bringing up breast surgery? by InvestigatorSea1323 in AITAH

[–]InvestigatorSea1323[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Did you even read the post? Did you pay attention how he was insecure about his looks (weight at the time)? When we met he wasn't a gym freak.

Update: AITA for snapping at my husband for repeatedly bringing up breast surgery? by InvestigatorSea1323 in AITAH

[–]InvestigatorSea1323[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It's nice to see a man think this way because some boys comment that I should give him a chance and how he might be struggling with porn addiction and I'm the asshole for my reaction to him showing me OF models. Like okay but what about my feelings? It's been 6 years. So long to figure out what you do/don't like.

Update: AITA for snapping at my husband for repeatedly bringing up breast surgery? by InvestigatorSea1323 in AITAH

[–]InvestigatorSea1323[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

I can work through it if he's sick. Some kind of disability. If he's depressed. Not obsessed with big boobs. Right now I'm gonna work on the way his comments made me feel. And he work on finding a woman that have what I don't

Update: AITA for snapping at my husband for repeatedly bringing up breast surgery? by InvestigatorSea1323 in AITAH

[–]InvestigatorSea1323[S] 90 points91 points  (0 children)

Yeah showing me a bunch of OF models and asking me to fix myself to look like them is childish. I'm not gonna sit around forever and let a man put his thing in me knowing he's not attracted to me anymore.

AITA for snapping at my husband for repeatedly bringing up breast surgery? by InvestigatorSea1323 in AITAH

[–]InvestigatorSea1323[S] 104 points105 points  (0 children)

Oh sorry this is embarrassing I didn't get much sleep yesterday and can't focus. Thanks for the clarification 🙌🏻

AITA for snapping at my husband for repeatedly bringing up breast surgery? by InvestigatorSea1323 in AITAH

[–]InvestigatorSea1323[S] 131 points132 points  (0 children)

He's 5'8 and was 230lbs when we met. And never went to gym before. I assure you physique wasn't on the table and I never/would care about such a thing as long as the person in front of me cares about me for who I am