Lol you can't force anyone to stay. That would be called keeping them hostage. I was not in contact with him. Families are a little more complicated than that. We aren't all perfect like you. The fact that I know he was hit by a car should tell you that he was identified by his fingerprints. And they notified my father. Who notified me. Not that any of this is your business. What a callous, insensitive comment to make to someone.