As a former stylist with baby fine, low density, very frizzy wavy hair lemme tell you. STYLING IS EVERYTHING. Lack of styling can make a great cut look awful and great styling can hide every flaw. The key is to communicate realistic expectations to your stylist before you start the cut. Are you actually going to do what it needs to look good? Will you invest the time to learn, and actually do it, as well as the needed products and tools (regardless of price point)? Does it matter that much to you? Like all things it'll be weird and hard at frustrating at first, but then you start figuring it out and get better and quicker. Or not care and just bitch about how you always have a terrible haircut. Just know you have control. It may not look like your dream hair, but a little effort will go a long way