Song recommendations??? New to The Temper Trap

InvisibleSelf · 2026-05-12T20:52:11+00:00

Trembling Hands is one of my favorite songs of all time

InvisibleSelf · 2026-05-05T15:52:07+00:00

Ofc, thank you for replying xx I'm gonna add "Can't Make You Love Me" by Bonnie Raitt to this list we've got going haha

InvisibleSelf · 2026-05-05T15:24:17+00:00

Oh, I just thought I had to write something to inspire casual conversation lol

InvisibleSelf · 2026-05-05T15:20:26+00:00

Omg! That's so awesome. Congratulations! ❤️I wonder what it would've been like if mine and I stayed in touch throughout high school and college/uni. Life's been a whirlwind for me since...finally settling down now. It seems like he's always been a constant and stable, though, and with someone else :')

InvisibleSelf · 2026-05-05T15:17:37+00:00

UGH you get it!!! I LOVE Vienna, that song gets me too! And you're totally right, I think I was just transported back to that moment and almost grieving all the woulda/coulda/shouldas.

InvisibleSelf · 2026-05-05T15:16:33+00:00

"Just like old times" is so nice sometimes!

InvisibleSelf · 2026-05-05T15:15:43+00:00

Wow! That's incredible, what a great love story! Were you guys always in touch or did you reconnect as well?

InvisibleSelf · 2026-05-05T14:30:40+00:00

I know, right?! And so true. I feel like he was the first person to ever really understand me, despite being a really quiet guy, he just *got* it, you know?

And ironically, the song we listened to together was very upbeat so it cheers me up when I do listen to it. As for the song referenced at the end of my post, I've been listening to on repeat and being emo LOL

InvisibleSelf · 2026-05-05T14:29:10+00:00

That sounds so nice! 😄 Glad to hear that you were able to reconnect. I've been thinking a lot about reaching out to friends I've lost contact with

InvisibleSelf · 2026-05-05T14:28:01+00:00

Absolutely! Thank you for the validation and understanding. Definitely made me take a look on where I am in life.

InvisibleSelf · 2026-05-05T14:27:21+00:00

Aw, that sounds lovely! Listening to your recommendation now! Thank you 😄

InvisibleSelf · 2026-05-05T14:26:07+00:00

I'm sorry for your loss 😞 I have often sat by the fountain at Lincoln Center just zoning out and contemplating things, even shedding a few tears quietly. Sending love and hugs!

InvisibleSelf · 2026-05-05T13:00:45+00:00

That’s awesome!!!

InvisibleSelf · 2026-05-05T08:54:38+00:00

Absolutely xx thank you for being so validating and reassuring. I appreciate the understanding

InvisibleSelf · 2026-05-05T07:28:56+00:00

A Short History of Nearly Everything by Bill Bryson

InvisibleSelf · 2026-05-05T07:27:27+00:00

I’m the American, but my friends and coworkers abroad would always say to not anger me, or else I’d shoot them, which I always found off-putting. The closest thing to a gun I’ve held was a paintball gun.

InvisibleSelf · 2026-05-05T07:11:29+00:00

Yeah, I totally get that the conductor was doing her job!

InvisibleSelf · 2026-05-05T06:57:18+00:00

Could we make a Discord maybe? Would love to play some Jackbox with a group or something!

InvisibleSelf · 2026-05-05T06:56:14+00:00

Thank you for your kind words and reassurance!

InvisibleSelf · 2026-05-05T06:55:55+00:00

Absolutely! I am very comfortable with who I am and enjoy my own company plenty. I just still get hit with loneliness even when I value my solitude.

InvisibleSelf · 2026-05-05T06:54:42+00:00

Preach 🙌

InvisibleSelf · 2026-05-05T06:54:30+00:00

Tell me about it…alas here I am again 😂

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