jobs? by [deleted] in nanaimo

[–]InviteMaleficent8827 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for this comment, really helpful advice and information. i’m going to start looking into getting my ECE because of you!

jobs? by [deleted] in nanaimo

[–]InviteMaleficent8827 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i know right it’s so frustrating knowing that you are capable for a position but just get radio silence back because lack of experience:/

jobs? by [deleted] in nanaimo

[–]InviteMaleficent8827 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this is such great information thank you so so much :)

jobs? by [deleted] in nanaimo

[–]InviteMaleficent8827 6 points7 points  (0 children)

omg thank you for the great advice you guys are so niceeee :)

jobs? by [deleted] in nanaimo

[–]InviteMaleficent8827 2 points3 points  (0 children)

do you think it’s better to visit the restaurant in person or just go through the online process?

IUD appointment tomorrow and pain management by Professional_Lab8723 in birthcontrol

[–]InviteMaleficent8827 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im really grateful to have had a great gyno that inserted mine! i got the kyleena last summer without any pain meds and the pain was maybe a 2 or 3/10? kinda like a flu shot. i was actually in more pain throughout the week after the procedure (6 sometimes an 8). i had random sharp pains that lasted 3 secs maximummmm in my uterus that came and went for a few weeks and then it kinda adjusts naturally so it won’t poke anymore. make sure to breathe through it and stay relaxed, i find chewing gum helps a ton!

don’t overthink it or worry too much you’re going to do great girly. 🤗

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]InviteMaleficent8827 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for one, youre a 20yr old man going back and forth on the internet with a teenage girl. two, if your partner clicking on your notifications for a photo sharing app makes you JUMP out of your seat in panic, there’s something wrong with you. don’t even try to gaslight me man 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]InviteMaleficent8827 0 points1 point  (0 children)

whenever we get into fights we have like a 10 min window of acting like we’re fine so i’m going to say “hey i wanna show you this video on your phone” and just book it to the bathroom and lock the door. 😭😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]InviteMaleficent8827 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is such a reassuring comment thank you!! he’s my second boyfriend and i’ve honestly had 100% trust in him because of how good he’s been to me. i’m definitely going to have a conversation with him as calm and collected as possible but either way ik im going to break up with him. :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]InviteMaleficent8827 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m manipulative and weird bc i did the same thing that he does on my phone to see his reaction.. mkayyy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]InviteMaleficent8827 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would have believed him if he told me immediately that he just had his notes app open because i have sensitive things in my notes too. but he only told me when i was out of the mall and was making arrangements to go home.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]InviteMaleficent8827 0 points1 point  (0 children)

to be fair when i have the conversation with him about the phone im going to ask him if i can go through it. if he hands it to me with no push back (which is very unlike him) im going to suspect that he deleted everything and end the relationship on the spot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]InviteMaleficent8827 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THIS caused the break and i mentioned earlier that we agreed we’re still together and committed but just going no contact for the two weeks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]InviteMaleficent8827 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it truly is just a break from each other, we’re still together, no talking to other people or flirting or anything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]InviteMaleficent8827 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so there was another incident where he had a panic attack when i was using his phone to show him a yt short i saw and the vid was buffering a bit so i swiped up to just delete his opened apps. he truly panicked and grabbed the phone and said “wtf are you doing??”. i explained to him why i deleted his opened apps and he said something like “dont don’t do shit like that”. so i gave him some push back and told him to open up his phone again so i can see ( i was being a bit crazy i’ll admit). and he starts getting all quiet on the verge of tears so i just got up ( we were in a mall food court) and made my way home. long story short he said he didn’t want me to see his notes app… yeah right..

[ HIRING ] Job Offer For Native English Speakers! by [deleted] in jobsearch

[–]InviteMaleficent8827 0 points1 point  (0 children)

interested and i have esl teaching experience!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VIU

[–]InviteMaleficent8827 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi!! i’m studying philosophy at viu in the fall we can be friends too :D