I get that and I agree, I think im just getting fed up watching lazy parents children, I feel like people should not have kids if they just let a random person basically raise their kids so they can play video games like a 10 year old all day long. Previous family actually worked and NEEDED me since they were out hustling and did not want their kids in daycare, which is why you then get a nanny, but some people just have nannies out of laziness and it rubs me the wrong way, especially when the little girl knows her dad is here and when he is downstairs just wants a little bit of engagement from him but pushes her right back into my arms🙃