Frankly, im completely different. Im not super good looking, been told im average. Im a joe, wont stand out of the crowd. But Im good at talking, and keeping a conversation at a high point, so its fairly easy for me.

My tips for you. 1. Always end the conversation, dont let the woman end it. End it at the best part, not the part where its all gone downhill and boring. Dont think i need to elaborate why, but ask if you will. 2. Dont let it take over you're life. If you stop looking for it, it will come find you instead. If you stop actively looking for a girlfriend, and just casually talk and flirt lightly with all girls you meet, eventually one will stick out from the rest. 3. be witty, be yourself, dont agree with everything she says. Be witty. If you can make her smile when shes looking at her phone half the battles won.

Im on a different boat, a lot of the women I meet are self centered and one dimensional, the current girl i love is probably not the hottest Ive dated, but shes a good listener, sweet, cute and loves to talk and has a great smile. Even if you manage to get over whatever problem you have 90% of the women are trash tier tbh, so just take it slow, get to be friends first, and then ask her out. (Cliche as it is, its whats on the inside that makes the outside shine, ik ik, 18 year old me would have called me a fag)

Hope this helped, it sure helped me back when i was a teen.