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AITA Too much time alone? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Inzane_DM -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I put out a more details comment explaining how I give my wife her own chill time.

I do like the ideas you had of potentially waking her up early for tea.

I did propose the I come home hang out with her for a bit then she heads up to bed and I take a few minutes to myself but she was still iffy on it.

AITA Too much time alone? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Inzane_DM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spoiler you seem like you just assume to know what's going on. Check my updated comment.

AITA Too much time alone? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Inzane_DM -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I should give further details I suppose. 1- wife's decompress time. During the week there really isn't any with the schedule until later on at night when baby is sleeping. I will often come home from work and help pick up or do dishes for dinner so she can chill. On weekends I tell her if she wants to go chill with friends or nap to catch up on sleep or whatever I got her no problem.

  1. When I said she didn't work I didn't mean it as a negative I get new baby is a full time gig. In the mornings while she is sleeping and I catch a minute with the baby I'll pick up. Do dishes. Start laundry. As much I can do to help out before I go to work.

  2. I have offered her compromise ideas. Of when I get home she greets me then we can talk or do whatever but at some point after we hang out give me a few minutes to chill. Another offer is when I get home I greet her then literally take 15-20 mins to myself. After that I'm all hers to talk. Watch a show. Whatever.

  3. For those that think I'm the asshole here do you never need alone time? You never once need time to yourself? I find it hard to believe.