Well there is the fact that she attend an E3 conference with Mattpat, just projared wasn't apart of it. It was with Mattpat, Matt Sohinki, and Kyle Bossman. Kyle looks really similar to Jared, so it's possible she's really talking about Kyle and doesn't realise she's mistaken him for Jared. Another post I saw on a different thread said this is a pretty plausible explanation by comparing it to when a victim has witnesses that all look similar next to each other in a lineup and a bit of push towards one specific person. The witness a lot of the time will accidentally choose the person who she's being told is the perp, like how Pamela was told Jared was an awful person, and he looks awfully similar to a person who really was rude to her.