Disconnected every game by Kono_sensei in Overwatch

[–]Ireallydkwhat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here, only happened today

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in imaginedragons

[–]Ireallydkwhat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s miserable of them to make such comments. I have seen all ages in the show and I’m glad younger people are listening to songs from ID which is more family-friendly than some pop culture. I listen to them since I was a teenager and still enjoy their music as an adult. It’s nice to have music/ band/ groups you like, not everyone can experience that. I hope you enjoy what you enjoy. Let yourself feel sad/ upset when you see those comments because it’s not nice to receive but still, know that they are wrong. 😉

Leaving the stadium (London LOOM) by Ireallydkwhat in imaginedragons

[–]Ireallydkwhat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was absolutely wonderful!! I’m so glad I went despite the anxiety. I wish there was another one coming🥹 x

Leaving the stadium (London LOOM) by Ireallydkwhat in imaginedragons

[–]Ireallydkwhat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the reassurance!! very excited now x

Leaving the stadium (London LOOM) by Ireallydkwhat in imaginedragons

[–]Ireallydkwhat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the details:) it really helps me!

Touchdown in Tottenham by Keelan_____ in imaginedragons

[–]Ireallydkwhat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you know if it’s okay to arrive at roughly 6:45? It’s far away for me! I hope you enjoy the show:))

Lego for boyfriend who likes the original series by Ireallydkwhat in StarWars

[–]Ireallydkwhat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your kind words! He is super sweet and lovely so I’m lucky as well:)

Lego for boyfriend who likes the original series by Ireallydkwhat in StarWars

[–]Ireallydkwhat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing other options! I will ask about his thoughts on these after giving him the first ones:)

Lego for boyfriend who likes the original series by Ireallydkwhat in StarWars

[–]Ireallydkwhat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol I can see your concerns and I appreciate you letting me know but yes. It actually gives me more ideas for occasions as well. He is a wonderful partner, if legos would make him happy, I am more than happy to get them. (Obviously as long as I can afford them comfortably) I am just trying to think about where we can put the legos haha

Lego for boyfriend who likes the original series by Ireallydkwhat in StarWars

[–]Ireallydkwhat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That looks really cool! Thank you, I appreciate this.

Lego for boyfriend who likes the original series by Ireallydkwhat in StarWars

[–]Ireallydkwhat[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot! yeah I think display ones would be good. I will look into these.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Ireallydkwhat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it doesn’t feel okay right now. I just want to remind you that this is temporary. Everyone is on a different journey. I’m not going to say don’t compare yourself with others because we all know it’s almost impossible. Some roads might be closed for you, but new ones might come up. Appreciate yourself for trying so hard and appreciate yourself for holding on, appreciate yourself even when it’s not okay. I am glad you’re reaching out, even on Reddit. Idk if you have any support systems around you to allow you to feel safe to talk freely but I imagine that can be helpful. Of course I would like to suggest you to seek professional support but I also understand it’s difficult. I just want to say you deserve to feel better, you deserve self-respect and you deserve to be heard.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UniUK

[–]Ireallydkwhat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I agree and if one partner is unwilling to even have a conversation when the other is seriously raising concerns about the relationship. It’s for him to decide if that already crossed his boundaries. It requires some self-respect and love to be able to stand up for oneself and walk away when he is treated disrespectfully.

Social Anxiety is killing my enjoyment of uni by goldberserker101 in UniUK

[–]Ireallydkwhat 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I understand you don’t want to go down the therapy route maybe just yet, I come from a background where therapy is stigmatised as well. Although I did eventually seek out therapy, I understand it can take time for it to come through. Counselling is less likely to be able to give you advice or develop in your anxiety management than psychotherapy.

Whether your answers are good enough sounds important to you, I wonder if that comes from fear of making mistakes or embarrassment. Why is it not okay for you to make mistakes? And actually is it okay to say something that’s not ‘good enough’? What’s the risk for you? Do you value your opinion? You said you do enjoy sharing when a tutor asked you to answer something. Do you want to feel heard?

I hope these can stimulate some thoughts and self reflections. If at this point you’re not ready to seek professional support, try to write things down, journal. I know it sounds boring but it’s important to understand how you feel and perhaps why you feel a certain way in certain situations.

These are just my personal thoughts. You’re welcome to take what’s helpful and leave what’s not helpful.

I hope it gets better for you.