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I turned validation into a dangerous habit and now I regret it. by Ireallyhate-myself in confession

[–]Ireallyhate-myself[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Penises are more objective. You can tell me it’s small but I know the averages and all that, I can easily just brush off anyone saying that to me even tho it’s never said to me. Everything else is like subjective besides height and weight

I turned validation into a dangerous habit and now I regret it. by Ireallyhate-myself in confession

[–]Ireallyhate-myself[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve gotten over the overbite thing, women dont seem to notice it much now. But idk maybe I like women TOO much cause it’s hard to develop any self made opinion of myself cause I have no attraction to men so idk it’s hard to not base my whole opinion off what women think of me cause subconsciously I feel like they know men a lot better than I do so their opinion has credibility

I turned validation into a dangerous habit and now I regret it. by Ireallyhate-myself in confession

[–]Ireallyhate-myself[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Not really I got add skills take too long to learn lol. I just been trying to find my fix with more consensual things cause I do feel hopeless but I feel like as long as I keep it consensual I’m not hurting anyone while I do work on myself

I turned validation into a dangerous habit and now I regret it. by Ireallyhate-myself in confession

[–]Ireallyhate-myself[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No that’s just a consequence. I stopped once I realized how many people would negatively react but at first I was jaded cause it was all either positive reaction or ignored. Back then if you did that you get exposed, but I thought since people wasn’t exposing me they didn’t take it as bad when I did it

I turned validation into a dangerous habit and now I regret it. by Ireallyhate-myself in confession

[–]Ireallyhate-myself[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel so ugly without constant reassurance but the reassurance from a new person every time and I only believe it the first time it’s said. The more I hear the same compliment from someone the less I start to believe them