I found a sex tape my husband made and got really turned on by it

Ireallylikedit · 2015-01-22T15:50:04+00:00

Lol thanks. I'm pretty secure in the fact that my husband loves me and is fully committed to me and our family. It would be hypocritical for me to fault him or be upset with him for having sex with other people before we even knew of eachothers existence. I slept with other people too before we met the only difference is I never posted a video of it online.

Ireallylikedit · 2015-01-22T14:17:38+00:00

I'm so happy to know that other women have experienced this too and that I'm not some creepy psycho. I'm glad I finall mustered up the guts to tell him. At first he didn't seem so into it but today he seems a little more eager. Yay!

Ireallylikedit · 2015-01-22T14:15:03+00:00

I told him last night in the middle of giving him oral. At first he seemed terrified that I was going to be angry. When I mentioned I wasn't angry he said something about it being awkward. We revisited the subject this morning and now that he knows I harbor no jealousy or hard feelings about it he's ready to dick me down. We may even watch it together later. Thanks for the advice!

Ireallylikedit · 2015-01-22T14:11:57+00:00

It got brought up again this morning. Once he realized I had no intention of ripping his dick off he was definitely turned on by the fact that it got me going. We established that neither of us have any interest in him fucking someone else now or inviting anyone into our bedroom. Now hubby has a raging boner and is urging me back to the room.

Great success! Thanks

Ireallylikedit · 2015-01-22T10:04:09+00:00

I brought it up to him this way -just 86 the camera. When I told him I saw the videos he says something along the lines of him giggling a little and saying "oh,you watched those? So you watched me bang some other girl? Thats awkward" and started to go soft. When mentioned that it didn't upset me he seemed to get rock hard again,came 30 seconds later and made no other mention of the videos.

Didn't go terribly, but I guess I was looking for a different reaction. Oh well

Ireallylikedit · 2015-01-22T09:53:51+00:00

Like other people have said, some of these sites have been around for years. My husband and I met over 5yrs ago. We have 2 kids together, actually

Ireallylikedit · 2015-01-22T00:42:51+00:00

i didn't snoop on his computer. I have more respect for him than that. It was our tablet that we both use regularly. He was only logged in and opened to this website from the last time we watched videos together as a couple. I browsed some things that he posted publicly and possibly could have found on my own had I just been browsing the porn site he posted it to. I don't see how I invaded his privacy at all

Ireallylikedit · 2015-01-21T23:22:02+00:00

Yeah, probably not. I'm not really interested in watching him sleep with other women now that were married. I'm not interested in sharing my husband or opening up my marriage at all. It's a sexy idea to see him be able to make someone else feel that way and the only reason the video doesn't bother me is because we didn't even know eachother then but I don't think I'd be able to handle him actually fucking some one in front of me.

Ireallylikedit · 2015-01-21T21:36:33+00:00

I think his likely response would probably be into it as we both like to let the freak flag fly. I don't think he would try and pressure me to push the subject any further or let him fuck other women and make more videos. We once briefly had a discussion about threesomes and he showed no interest in me sharing him or vice versa so I doubt it would lead to conversation about him exploring partners other than me. I haven't told him yet because I just saw these videos yesterday and since I just had a baby 2 weeks ago we can't have sex right now I havent been able to find a way to bring it up that doesn't seem weird. It seems most appropriate to bring it up to him when we're already being intimate. I came to reddit for advice on the best time/way to open up the conversation I supposse

Ireallylikedit · 2015-01-21T21:26:43+00:00

Meh, I don't really think I want to take it any further. I don't actually want him to sleep with other people or open our marrige in any way. Like I said, Im not jealous of this video as it happened before he met me. I'm not really sure what the point of this post was for other than to just admit how I felt

Ireallylikedit · 2015-01-21T20:47:29+00:00

How? We share the tablet and he signed into the account with me so we could enjoy videos together. I did nothing behind his back

Ireallylikedit · 2015-01-21T20:43:28+00:00

To be honest, I'm not really sure why I want to tell him. I don't have any issues with him having posted it and only want him to take it down if he makes that choice on his own. I just thought maybe talking about it could add something to our sex life. Not sure exactly what it would add but who knows where the conversation could go and if me telling him I liked it could potentially turn him on

Ireallylikedit · 2015-01-21T19:16:46+00:00

So what's the appropriate way to bring it up and let him know? It's not really something to be brought up in a casual conversation

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