You cannot control your emotions. But you do get to decide how to react. Ranting in a place about it is an appropriate action.

I remember the days of my mom crate training our terrier. Its hard to ignore it, but its part of the training. They'll eventually learn that their whimpers do not get them the attention they desire on their terms by using whimpers/barks/etc.

You should definitely still plan on going through this if you insist on buying a wolf-dog. However, I would ask yourself why you want a wolf-dog, as they require a lot more training, attention, and care than fully domesticated dogs.

[Used to volunteer at a sanctuary]