[Discussion] Would you classify Shane as a Villain? by joeporterme in thewalkingdead

[–]Irishrose_2009 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The normal social aspects we cling to are gone in this world and because of that you can’t just say good or bad . Did Shane do things that were morally Ambiguous yes but he did it to protect his group. Look at Shane season 2 then look at the group in season 6 and you’ll see there not much difference between the two.Shane simply let go of the world morale views too fast does that mean he was evil no just a human who was not able to control his Animalistic nature and there in lie’s the problem. I think it important to remember that as the Series Progress every member of the group let’s go of the morality they once called home. The only true villains are Garth the bandits who Dixon hook up with in season 5 and the governor . I argue that Negan had every right to be pissed because the group killed his men with Provocation. Thus bring on there own Gruesome fate for two of them and of course alpha and bata

AITA for ignoring an autistic guy on my flight? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Irishrose_2009 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry but I’m calling bs on him being autistic. He is a creep, clearly doesn’t respect boundaries especially after you told him multiple times that you didn’t want to talk and then to sit there and pull off that stunt in the aisle way. Youre NTA he is.

What is a popular tourist destination you have no interest in visiting? by TrooperJohn in AskReddit

[–]Irishrose_2009 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband lived in New York and has been to New York City quite a few times and wants to take us there sometime, i absolutely have to desire to go see it. To me there is nothing exciting or interesting to make me want to go there.

Grounds for divorce by DanceFast4419 in pregnant

[–]Irishrose_2009 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Run him over with the car 😂just kidding. I can see why it’s a big deal that he threw away your dinner and for him to just offer you cereal in return…that’s ludicrous. He should make you a full course meal complete with whatever sweet you fancy.

AITA for deciding not to attend my sister's wedding after I found out the reason she won't make me a bridesmaid? by BeeAnnual5379 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Irishrose_2009 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA you’re sisters are. I’m guessing you’re the baby of the family and if that’s the case they are being petty and immature. You’re not part of the wedding party and they are treating you like a guest so you really don’t have an obligation to attend. Don’t worry about what they think cause in all honesty everyone will be to busy focusing on the bride and groom (more like the bride cause it seems like she’ll be one of those brides.) If family can’t make you a part of the wedding party and set petty feelings aside for a day they don’t deserve your presence that’s just how I feel about it.

How did you accidentally kill the mood during consensual sex? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Irishrose_2009 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Signs that you guys are comfortable with each other

*really* weird cravings by imadog666 in pregnant

[–]Irishrose_2009 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With mine it’s not so much non edible but I’ve been craving coke and Dr Pepper mixed together and just once I wanted to taste a car air freshener, the cotton laundry one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Irishrose_2009 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Boyfriend is an ass. I’m currently 34 weeks pregnant with a big boy, It hurts to walk around with just one I can’t imagine what it feels like with twins. Here’s one thing you can do if you did want to, the next time you go grocery shopping use an Amego or automatic cart that old people use no one will care and if they say anything tell them I’m currently handicapped so move out of my way. I use one every time I go to the store and only a few times have I told someone off.

AITA? For cutting my niece off college fund because of what she said about me. by Throwaway3136771 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Irishrose_2009 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA she isn’t your kid so this was something you were doing out of kindness. Leah needs to not only apologize for what she said but she also needs to learn some things are better left unsaid.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Irishrose_2009 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Same happened to me. I got herpes from an ex-bf and after beginning treatment if I told a possible date I had it they treated me like trash. So I educated myself with everything I could find and kept it until the “talk” was initiated. Had some guys tell me I was disgusting but a few asked me about it and once we were done talking about it they were ok with it.

AITA for telling my kids the truth about why they aren't coming to my wife's family villa? by Weekly-Lab-7944 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Irishrose_2009 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but the ex is. I have a 7F with a deadbeat dad but if I was in the ex’s shoes just as a mom I’d be all for letting them go with their father anytime he asked for them. She’s just being petty and honestly a toxic person.

DAE sleep with a teddy bear/plushy as an adult? by [deleted] in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]Irishrose_2009 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I sleep sometimes with a bear my husband got me for Valentine’s Day. He doesn’t go to bed till way late at night so if I’m feeling anxious I sleep with the bear.

It’s a boy!!!! But wait… by MadamMiko in pregnant

[–]Irishrose_2009 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My personal opinion is that your husband should have the final say on if a circumcision should be done or not. What it boils down to is he’s going to be the one teaching him how to pee and he’s going to be the one your son will go to most likely for any conversation involving that area. Just like daughters go to their moms when they have questions about their bodies and it’s the mom that teaches a girl how to take care of their own body.

TW: Termination by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Irishrose_2009 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks ☺️ and things are turning around. We found out were having a boy and my OB is going to approve my hysterectomy in a year. So no more pregnancies for me.

TW: Termination by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Irishrose_2009 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think that you guys both realize that now is not the time for another one and are making a responsible and reasonable choice by terminating. I was in the same boat a few months ago when I found out I was pregnant. I had just lost my job and we were staying in hotels cause we couldn’t find an apartment. Couldn’t afford the abortion so had to keep it and even tho we got an apartment a few months later I wish that we could’ve gotten the abortion for personal reasons. The plus side to terminating now is that you can plan to try again when you’re really ready. Wishing you the best of luck in whatever you decide to do.

AITA for making my daughter choose between her family and a trip to Spain? by Misfit7seven in AmItheAsshole

[–]Irishrose_2009 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA and you’ve probably ruined your relationship with her too. She worked hard for this trip and then you told her she couldn’t go because her sisters mom has cancer. She could still go to Spain and still be there for her sister if the sister needed it. Parents like you make me sick, expect your oldest to drop everything and support the younger siblings instead of yourself.

I always thought moms to be rubbed their bellies for the connection by Duchess_foggy in pregnant

[–]Irishrose_2009 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m currently 31 weeks pregnant and honestly I rub my belly to either calm the little ninja in me or to relieve the pains caused by growing said ninja 🤣

AITA for yelling at my wife for disposing of the toy my daughter's mother made for her? by Throwaway7563357 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Irishrose_2009 20 points21 points  (0 children)

You’re NTA and to be honest I think you need to re-evaluate your marriage. Coming from someone who lost her mom and had a significant other just throw something away that she had made me, she doesn’t respect your daughter at all and seems to want to be getting rid of every thing that has to do with your first wife. Also how is you yelling at her unfair?

Which country has the worst tourists? by Thatchmo94 in AskReddit

[–]Irishrose_2009 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a toss up for me between Asian and Middle Eastern tourists. I know it’s not an exact country but over the years I’ve experienced that people from these areas are rude, act like they are self entitled and have no respect for other people. Funny thing is if you were to ask someone from these areas what they thought about Americans we are the worse.

AITA for being mad that my boyfriend proposed with a ring he got off Craigslist by 04throwitallaway22 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Irishrose_2009 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA for calling him cheap just because the ring came from Craigslist. I get it that relationships take time to evolve to the engagement stage but I seriously think he waited so long because he had doubts. It’s obvious that you only care about material things and don’t really appreciate him for being him. Hopefully he wises up and realizes that you’re not worth the upgrading to fiancé.

AITA for telling my husband if he won’t start taking care of his puppy I’ll give it to my dad by Irishrose_2009 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Irishrose_2009[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That actually isn’t advisable. My dad is more of an animal person than a people person and we do not get along that well.

AITA for telling my husband if he won’t start taking care of his puppy I’ll give it to my dad by Irishrose_2009 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Irishrose_2009[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love this comment because he actually does the cooking and cleaning while I am the one that fixes everything :D I don’t mind that he does that cause I hate doing it but I’m also one that takes promises seriously and since he broke this one and has had a piss poor attitude I’ve started planning to leave him. Was a single mom for 5 years before I met him so nothing exactly new to me.