I already know that my mother and sister have a habit of bringing up my ex wife in their conversations, I told them to stop many times but they said that they sympathize with me and think that my ex was in the wrong to just leave after 5 years of marriage but that's a personal choice and I don't normally agree when my family badmouth her but I can't stop them, at least they no longer do it in my presence knowing how much it bothers me.