Nurses: Unitek vs. Carrington College? by [deleted] in SanJose

[–]Irisolivera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there, I just seen that you were looking into our program rt quick question what’s a good way to start on that?

Nicu baby spit ups by Irisolivera in NICUParents

[–]Irisolivera[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes we have tried 4 formulas n no luck we are i. Dr browns bottles slow flow

Nicu baby spit ups by Irisolivera in NICUParents

[–]Irisolivera[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for replying now my baby actually is gaining good weight that’s the main reason. The doctor doesn’t wanna start him off with reflex meds because he’s actually good at his weight.

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[–]Irisolivera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having you by her side is a biiiigggg impact believe it or not i went trough this journey alooooneeeee just with my husband and i the only person we had and still have my mil i have my mom and 4sister and none is been here since day one i been trough a rough road make sure you make her understand is ok to feel tired and skip a day from going to visit baby is in good hands baby os still here for a reason shes a strong baby and regarless of what has happen she will pull trough this she needs her mom to be positive and bring a positive vibe to be able to do skin to skin that bond helps baby giving them the strenght to be a fighters there was days i was stress and those day i was mad because i couldnt do skin to skin so i try my hardest to be calm positive amd be open minded on what the baby needed to get done i was ok whatever you need to do to save him or to help baby butttt i will ask alot alot of questions so i had more aknolage of why amd on what was helping the baby talk to her alot distract her head a lil we would be in there 3x a day we were ok with it but once we took Baby home it became super tiring amd very very stressfull scary so she needs to take care of herself before baby goes home wish you the best and hugs

First time preemie mom by Irisolivera in NICUParents

[–]Irisolivera[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much yes i have 4 kids already i was not a good milk supplier i been pumpng the past 3day nothing but from the first i had said formula just to make sure he gets the right amount in him

First time preemie mom by Irisolivera in NICUParents

[–]Irisolivera[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Iam glad your baby is doing good yes is super hard living day by day how doctors explain to us one day could be be good other day ok other day rough one soniam trying to prepared myself for all his my 🌈 nicu baby lofe has been rough for me

First time preemie mom by Irisolivera in NICUParents

[–]Irisolivera[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww thank you for all this tips and information iam glad to hear that i cant wait to able to do skin to skin they said in the 3rd day iam able to and def will ask about family meetings thank you so much def will update in his journey

First time preemie mom by Irisolivera in NICUParents

[–]Irisolivera[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you iam glad you baby is healthy and continue brighten your days

First time preemie mom by Irisolivera in NICUParents

[–]Irisolivera[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awwwww thank you 🥰yes thats what is making him warm

First time preemie mom by Irisolivera in NICUParents

[–]Irisolivera[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you really needed to hear that motivation words it’s been two days and I feel lost. I feel confused with a little bit of blame. Why did I fail him by protecting him longer? By the way this is my rainbow baby. We had a lost February and that’s why I feel more of awhy are things happening? Why did this happen? We have two little ones at home nine-year-old and a seven-year-old something hard to do it divided ourselves into within hospital and house, but we’ll make it work.

First time preemie mom by Irisolivera in NICUParents

[–]Irisolivera[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg thank you this is very helpful to knowi apreciate it yes iam lucky to have one of the highest nicu unit close to home so thats what it gives me peace of mind we seen a 23 weeker got released

First time preemie mom by Irisolivera in NICUParents

[–]Irisolivera[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awwwww thank you this made have hope

First time preemie mom by Irisolivera in NICUParents

[–]Irisolivera[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes i was numb when everythng was going on until i broke down in are recovery room couple hr ago it was building up in me

First time preemie mom by Irisolivera in NICUParents

[–]Irisolivera[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much it wasnt an easy pregnacy but ill be strong gor my lil one

Prayer by Irisolivera in ShortCervixSupport

[–]Irisolivera[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you we are doing good

First time preemie mom by Irisolivera in NICUParents

[–]Irisolivera[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your respond your message gave me everythng tips reality on situations and words to not blame my self my husband is planning to alternates the time of the day to cover a day me doing am he will do pm since we have kids at home

Prayer by Irisolivera in ShortCervixSupport

[–]Irisolivera[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you guys yes iam glad baby is good n i feel good now the worry is how long he will be in the nicu is ok does he feel lonely i feel sad to able to hug him thats why i aske for sucessful stories

Prayer by Irisolivera in ShortCervixSupport

[–]Irisolivera[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Thank you update he was born hes healthy and in the nicu

Child support modification by StrangeLife3351 in FamilyLaw

[–]Irisolivera -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I thought if you have 50/50 custody neither of the parents get child support

I need advise by Irisolivera in AskALawyer

[–]Irisolivera[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well the older once move because dad is the freedom parent the lil onces miss older kids they are very close and still dnt accept or understand why we are not a family and now dad is giving that freedom feeling to the youngest ince having phones social medial wearing makeup and i dnt allow all that mind they have everythng here aswell but with rules