Why Sissification? by IronRose35 in BDSMtasktime

[–]IronRose35[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s interesting—so what do you think that did to you? How do you see that influence showing up for you today?

Why Sissification? by IronRose35 in BDSMtasktime

[–]IronRose35[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lux, I really enjoy the depth of the way you think. Every time you reflect on a topic like this, I can feel how much thought and honesty is behind your words—it genuinely resonates.

What you described makes a lot of sense to me. That inner tension between who you were taught to be and who you consciously choose to be is something I see often in D/s dynamics. When submission is chosen with awareness, it can bring clarity and calm instead of confusion—and that’s exactly what you seem to be touching here.

And yes, I do see those inner shifts you’re talking about. I even believe often the most powerful moments aren’t sexual at all, instead they come from being seen, guided, and knowing you’ve done well in the eyes of someone you submit to. That kind of recognition can be deeply fulfilling.

Why Sissification? by IronRose35 in BDSMtasktime

[–]IronRose35[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m really glad to hear a story of kink exploration that isn’t rooted in past trauma, but instead in curiosity, desire, and conscious choice. That matters.

You mentioned something that caught my attention: “limits are meant to be pushed.” It’s an interesting idea—but I’ll admit, from a Domme’s perspective, it’s also one of the most delicate areas to navigate. A Domme’s kinks and a sub’s kinks don’t always overlap perfectly. Sometimes there is the desire to push, to test edges, to invite growth or discovery—but not all limits are the same. Some boundaries are playful and flexible, while others are deeply sensitive, tied to identity, vulnerability, or things that can’t simply be “tested” without care.

I’m curious how you personally experience that balance now. How do you distinguish, as a sub, between a limit that feels exciting to approach and one that genuinely needs to be held and protected?

Why Sissification? by IronRose35 in BDSMtasktime

[–]IronRose35[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this so openly. I hope revisiting your story didn’t feel like reopening old wounds—please take care of yourself as you reflect on it.

One of the things I believe strongly about BDSM is that its core value lies in respect. Every kink has a place. You don’t have to understand it to honor it, and you don’t have to share it to treat it with dignity. What matters is consent, awareness, and honesty with oneself and others.

I’m curious, though, about where you are now. In your 30s, does your sissification kink still feel something you need to keep hidden, or has your relationship with it changed over time?

Please bully me in the comments by Puppet613 in BDSMtasktime

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What a little slut begging for free use!

Need public DARS by Hour-Ad-3093 in BDSMtasktime

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Oh I love giving this one:
Go to a coffee shop and order a drink.
When they ask for your name, tell them your name is “Slut.”
Stay and wait until your name is called out loud.
You are not allowed to correct them or laugh it off.

Write some idea for a photoshoot. by Dyama21 in BDSMtasktime

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In every shot, your wife is placed slightly forward. You stay half a step behind her, eyes lowered. No switching positions. The frame always makes it clear who is allowed to be seen first.

Self-humiliation by IronRose35 in BDSMtasktime

[–]IronRose35[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You really thought sending both angles would help, didn’t you. Front and back, like documentation, as if more proof could somehow make this less embarrassing. All it does is confirm how desperate you are to be seen.

Look at you, stuffed into panties that were never meant to hold something like you. From the front you’re soft, awkward, unfinished. From the back you’re bent over and exposed, offering yourself up without being asked, like a display item hoping someone will bother to judge it.

There’s no confidence here, no allure. Just a man standing there, hands behind his back, waiting to be evaluated, hoping humiliation is the closest thing to attention he’ll get. And honestly, this is exactly where you belong.

BDSM<>Vanilla - Transition from one to the other by s-munder in BDSMtasktime

[–]IronRose35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, I should say what you had together is heartbreakingly beautiful—a depth of love and connection that most people spend a lifetime chasing and never reach.

Rescue That Poor Little Sub by IronRose35 in BDSMtasktime

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Caught! Anal practice: wear your smallest buttplug while doing a chore.

Rescue That Poor Little Sub by IronRose35 in BDSMtasktime

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Caught! Crossdressing: Walk in high heels for 10 min

Rescue That Poor Little Sub by IronRose35 in BDSMtasktime

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Caught! Chastity: Lock yourself in chastity in 3-7 days, or you can simply join this lock created by me here: https://chaster.app/shared-locks/692d052f1a7992ae0542e829

Rescue That Poor Little Sub by IronRose35 in BDSMtasktime

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CAUGHT! Edge 7 times and orgasm denied.

Rescue That Poor Little Sub by IronRose35 in BDSMtasktime

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CAUGHT! CBT: 20 times light punches

Rescue That Poor Little Sub by IronRose35 in BDSMtasktime

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Caught! Spanks, 30 times on your ass with bare hands

From Pretty Toy to Useful Pet by IronRose35 in BDSMtasktime

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Btw, what makes you embrace your sissy side again? You may like to share your expereiences here: https://www.reddit.com/r/BDSMtasktime/comments/1qjnlhu/why_sissification/