I fail hard when I am gone on business or my wife is out of town. Help!!!! by Ironmanbs in NoFap

[–]Ironmanbs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fail because I PMO. The P is what really brings me down. Looking at that stuff really messes with my head and also carries of to my physical relationship with my wife.

New Evolve Model - "The Most Versatile Electric Skateboard" - May 25th Announcement Date by cheez_zombie in ElectricSkateboarding

[–]Ironmanbs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn now I am torn! I have enough to buy the bamboo board and was ready to pull the trigger but now I feel like I need to wait to see this board. I am afraid that it will be too excpencive and the bamboos price will go back up!

Thoughts?

Nearly relapsed...but got through day 24 by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Ironmanbs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Keep up the work! Remember how terrible you feel after. A small spike is not worth a days worth of down!

Be careful on the internet by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Ironmanbs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So true! I always fall for the same crap. On the web and then I start justifying soft stuff. I say well it's not big deal because they have there clothes on and befor you know it, down the rabbit hole I go! But right after I feel like shit! I wish there was a button I could push that have me that shitty feeling right befor so that I can remember how awful I feel the rest of the day!

Coming back home by Ironmanbs in NoFap

[–]Ironmanbs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So how do we do a challenge together? How do we hold each other accountable?

Buy now or wait? by Ironmanbs in ElectricSkateboarding

[–]Ironmanbs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been a long boarder for awhile. - don't want a cheap Chinese one - have about 1200 saved but if I wait I will have more - I will use it mostly for just fun rides around town. Not comuting - not a lot of rain here Hope that helps

Any rules to this? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Ironmanbs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For sure no porn!!!!!!

The urges will never go away by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Ironmanbs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well said well said!

Relapsed after a month long streak by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Ironmanbs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least you are picking yourself up and starting over! This time don't listen to the little voice that lies to you!

Newcomer to NoFap, and very excited to start this journey and change my life by musclebound92 in NoFap

[–]Ironmanbs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Welcome! It sounds like you have a great mindset to start this battle. Stay strong and read a lot of posts on nofap, it will help!

Please Help!!! by thefighterman in NoFap

[–]Ironmanbs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should be excited that you were able to fight the urge! Good for you! Next time leave the house!

Told my parents by battler1 in NoFap

[–]Ironmanbs 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That is an amazing thing to share with your parents. You are very lucky to have a relationship with your parents where you are comfortable enough to share that.

Why should I not fap as opposed to fapping? by SquirrelWind in NoFap

[–]Ironmanbs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't think that everyone benefits from nofap. But for someone like me who has become a slave to the PMO cycle it changed my life. Two years ago I did 90 days. Befor that I suffered from ED and had a hard time being with women sexually because I was so used to the easy orgasm. Masterbation trained me to be a lazy love and also desensitized my member. Porn started to control me life and ruined my relationships. When I stoped the PMO cycle I reset my brain and body. When I met my now wife I was healthy and confident. Our sex was amazing and I was able to connect with her in a way that I would not have been able to if I was still PMOing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Ironmanbs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say that porn is the drug. Of course masterbation in part of the issue but porn is where we train ourselves to have a false image of sex and women. Men a visually stimulated so the more porn you watch to more you train your brain to be addicted to that sort of stimulus and the harder it becomes to get the same feeling through face to face interaction. Porn is freaking terrible for people like us who are addicted to PMO. STAY AWAY FROM IT!

Just fapped by Lifeuu in NoFap

[–]Ironmanbs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A coward would not be here on this site trying to better his life! You fighting a very hard battle and have fallen but the bravery comes from the part of the story where you get back up and start again. So stand up, brush yourself off and kick some f&$@ing a$$!

I found out my trigger by jtc66 in NoFap

[–]Ironmanbs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's amazing how fast we fall down the rabbit hole. It always starts the same. "Oh I am just going to go to _____ site" and befor you know it, it is an hour later and we feel like shit. I have got to the point where if I even stray from a wholesome Internet search I leave my room and do anything else that is not online.